yeah well after a long while of debating whether i should break up with him or not ive decided that if i was thinking about it this much, somethings not going right and it needs to end.. we havent been going out for long but he said he loved me on the second date..i said it back to him but didnt mean it..we've been going out for about two months and we go to school together, im still kind of new at this whole thing, im 15 and so is he but i know this doesnt feel right,i dunno i just dont really enjoy the time i spend with him, i dont feel i connect with him, and i just want it to end but i dont want to hurt him.. some words of advice or good things or ways to say please? any previous experiences that went well and how you handled it? im open for anything.
i've arranged to meet with him tomorrow, and im sort of...terrified, words dont come to me easily
2007-01-19 08:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by gg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your instincts about it not feeling right and ending it. Every time I listened to end it when it didn't feel right was a GOOD decision. When I didn't listen, I REALLY wished I would have.
Better now than later, it will only hurt worse the longer this goes on. You can still be kind and break it off. Sounds like you are. It will probably hurt him no matter how you say it, but he will mend and it would be more cruel to keep going out with him and you really don't want to.
Maybe something like. I've been thinking that it's time we break up. I don't want to hurt you. You are a great guy, and deserve someone who is crazy about you. I just don't feel like that. Bye. I wish you hapiness and hope you find someone that will work out better than me.
Plus you guys are still only 15, it's not like you are looking into the dating to get married relationship now anyways. It's better to date a few people before getting into a serious relationship.
2007-01-19 08:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what you feel bluntly but nicely. The more you beat around the bush, the harder it is to say and hear. Just say something simple like "I think it would be better if we took time off and just be friends." It doesn't sound like the relationship was too serious, so I don't think he'll go all suicidal or anything. Just be there to comfort him if he needs it and make it as painless as possible. Good luck!
2007-01-19 16:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you think you guys would be better friends. And when you said you loved him you didn't mean cause you just said it back to make him not feel weird. Your sorry, but you can't do this anymore.
Hunny, he's only 15 he'll be fine as so will you!
Good Luck!
2007-01-19 16:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You going regreat it as you get older, you see him with another person it going hurt you, remember what made you fall in love with him first place tell him im fall out of love him tell i don't want leave you tell do something before it to late, try keep the love flowing dont just late it die like if going break up with him you do it with the next person try ok , tell him save us
2007-01-19 16:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by baertholomew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boyfriends come and go but friends stay forever and i want to know you forever
2007-01-19 16:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by eddybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say bye! Quick clean blunt no hope given kill it quick
2007-01-19 16:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by hachika2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HIM THIS
YOUR FIRED!!!!!
2007-01-19 16:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋