Men if you met a women you liked for all the things you look for and she appears to be the one, so to speak. If you found that she choses a career that gives her high job satisfaction but a lower end income, would you change your mind about wanting her?
2007-01-19 08:26:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably not...but finances are also very important in a relationship. If the income was too low, it could effect our standard of living together. Sometimes you have to think about the family and not be selfish by choosing something that give you a high satisfaction. When you are a couple/family, its not always about you.
2007-01-19 08:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by Thoroughbred 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if she is doing what she loves then i would not mind. If she had a lot of potential and was just wasting it in some dead end job...Yes. It shows a lack of respect for herself. I like women with drive, it is a quality she could instill in her children. But Money is not everything obviously but it can say a lot about a person work ethic.
2007-01-19 16:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! Why should it matter? If you really beleive she is the one, i wouldnt even consider the money factor.
And it works both ways, as long as both a willing to stick together anything can be acheived.
When money becomes a factor in if you are going to like someone or not, the realtionship has already failed.
You will never really be happy!
2007-01-19 17:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I think that men these days look for independent women who can hold their own. I don't think it's exactly how much you make, it's more about you having goals and working to achieve them.
2007-01-19 16:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so I'm not a man, but c'mon...how shallow would that be really??? Finding a career which ultimately makes you happy at the beginning and the end of the day is worth more than millions hun....seriously, not just cheesballin....
and besides,,,what ever happenned to the gentlemen who WANT to take care of their woman? Not like it has to be completely but hell, give him something to be proud of....
2007-01-19 16:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not gonna lie, I prefer women to make equal or more then me. I bring a lot to the table finacially and if she can't bring it financially she should be able to bring other things to the table.
2007-01-19 16:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i knew a woman who had great personality and was a great person- money would definately not be a factor. if a guy doesnt want to be with a girl because of money, that is pretty shallow.
2007-01-19 16:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by chris_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all It is her career life. I would encourage her to take the path she finds pleasing. Ofcourse not prostitution..just joking now
2007-01-19 16:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a journalist. There's really not much choice in the matter.
2007-01-19 16:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by tridentoftime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
income doesnt matter as long as i fall in love with her and she is committed to me then thats all that matters
2007-01-19 16:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋