i was on the phone with him and then, he and his girlfriend started making all of these weird sounds. my friend has changed, what should i do?
2007-01-19 08:44:15 · 15 answers · asked by Igobeg O 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get used to it. Men are easily swayed by the thoughts of getting some. One of my best guy friends is 35 and he's sold me out for his crappy girlfriend....
2007-01-19 08:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do it tell your friend you miss hanging out with him. If you try to come between him and his girlfriend you stand a very good chance of ruining your friendship.
Take heart though. If this is a new girlfriend, the initial infatuation will pass sooner or later. Eventually your buddy will realize he needs to have time away from her to be with his friends. It may take a few weeks or it may take a few months, but it will happen eventually. If you're really his friend, you'll just deal with it an act like it never happened when he comes around.
The one exception is if you make plans to do something together and he skips out to be with her. If that happens, call him on it. Don't blame the girl, but tell him he really let you down by breaking the plans.
2007-01-19 08:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not what you think. Ask your friend about the situation and see what he says. If he doesn't have a good answer then I suggest you tell him that's he's changed and you feel cheated. Tell him to give you a call when he grows up or remembers who his friends are.
2007-01-19 08:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't overreact. Talk to your friend, in person, without the girlfriend present, and ask him why his behavior has suddenly changed.
2007-01-19 08:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships seldom remain static.
People either grow together or grow apart.
It sounds like his priorities have shifted from his brain to his penis.
Unfortunately for you, the best thing to do is to quietly withdraw so that he must come to you.
2007-01-19 08:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by superfastmoto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? Get use to it, it will happen many more times in life! It's really just a natural change...
2007-01-19 08:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl friends come and go but true friends are there all ways.
2007-01-19 08:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by wilster 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
keep your distance or confront him, that happens a lot when a friend starts a new relationship, it shouldn't but it does
2007-01-19 08:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a beating and then never talk to the punk again.
2007-01-19 08:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on
2007-01-19 08:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by xxsummerxx232 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋