men can look at other women as much as they want to and even masturbate to them and women are expected to be okay with this but when a hot guy passes by the woman can even turn her head around and look at him without her bf getting all jealous and bitchy??? and dont tell me that "men have needs and get turned on differently than women" women have sexual needs too and believe it or not we DO get turned on when we see a hot guy...
2007-01-19 08:42:30 · 10 answers · asked by toni s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Toni S,
I have found that this is the best way to look at guys in public without upsetting your current BF. You have to make him look at him too.
The next time you are out together and you see a hot piece of man candy coming your way, say to him, "Hey, didn't that guy go to your high school (or any other place he hangs out)"? And he'll be all like, "Who"? And you say, "Him.....right there"...
While he is trying to figure it out absorb all of that time to take in the sight!!! Works like a charm!!!
Good Luck
2007-01-19 08:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently the bf is very insecure. I look at hot women and I don't mind if my gf looks at hot guys. In fact, sometimes I even benefit from the fact she gets turned on by some hot guy. Seems like a win-win to me.
2007-01-19 16:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a gender issue. It's a personal one. Some people cannot stop their eyes from roaming around. And then it depends on how jealous their partners are. Jealous people aren't going to be happy about their partner scopin' out eye candy.
2007-01-19 16:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by rustyreacharound 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Its like we are supposed to be superior in some way. We are okay with them looking, but we do not need to look (yeah right).
My question is.... why is it when guys sleep with 20 girls he is a hero... when a girl does it, she is a slut. I just don't understand that either.
2007-01-19 16:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. Men always want what they can not have but we are suppose to just settle. I do not think so....it is ok 2 look just as long as both parties can do it.
2007-01-19 16:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by lizzy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Double standards.
2007-01-19 16:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend has security and self esteem issues. Cause not everyone's boyfriend or husband does this.
2007-01-19 16:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while i think its rude either way to do a head turn with your significan't other right there...
i mean sure it's okay to look.. but try and at least be subtle about it :)
2007-01-19 16:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha.i personally dont care.
we all get jealous so thats regular
go check the guy out.
im checking out girls too
2007-01-19 16:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Derek. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter to me where you get your appetite...as long as you come home for dinner!
2007-01-19 16:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋