Or is it better to just try and lie your way out of it?
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2007-01-19 08:46:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should admit to it..its the mature thing to do
2007-01-19 08:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lacey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should...if you're involved with someone who knows you're cheating, more than likely you lose that person unless that person has the same problem as you..."Keep your brains in your skull, not your pants"....why so many people have this problem is really beyond my thoughts, unless it's a sex addiction issue. Also you should read this article...pretty serious judge just sentenced a couple for cheating....in Michigan....
2007-01-19 17:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Rmprrmbouncer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you lie - regardless of the subject - it just makes it worse. If you're caught out and you WERE cheating, then just be an adult and own up to it.
If you weren't, however, then your spouse/gf/bf has some serious issues they need to work on - the main one being trust.
2007-01-19 16:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If it was an ongoing thing you should admit it if you want to move on in your relationship. If it was a one time thing, DENY, DENY, DENY. I know many will disagree with my advice but the truth is people cheat. Sometimes admitting it won't do anyone any good.
2007-01-19 16:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by sbfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd admit to it before he'd have the chance to accuse me of doing it. If I was accused before admitting to it, then I wouldn't deny it or lie about it. I hate lying and keeping secrets, so stressful.
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2007-01-19 16:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy in your relationship and are cheating just end the relationship instead of trying to lie your way out of the mess.
2007-01-19 16:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by bravokardia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a person is accused of cheating does not mean they did it.
Whatever you do remember: Honesty is always the best policy
2007-01-19 16:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by maxxy11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um if you are retarded enough to cheat, then confess! You also should end the relationship ASAP...should have been done before you cheated since you obviously are not interested in that person anymore. Don't lead them on, don't waste their time.
2007-01-19 16:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you're accused of it, you're pretty much busted, so you should probably admit it. They're going to find out for sure, anyway, so don't get yourself in deeper by lying.
2007-01-19 16:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should because dishonesty is definitely a quality you don't wont to have because you have already been caught cheating and to add lying about it on top of that is just making the situation worse.
2007-01-19 16:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by a j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did it then be honest...otherwise you're a worse person than the one who just cheats, admits it and tries to make things better.
2007-01-19 16:49:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋