I used to date this guy and my cousin used to date his best friend.... Well the relationship didnt work out so me and my ex went our seperate ways... Well things started to go wrong with my cousin and the guy she was dating and they ended up breaking up as well... Now I found out that my cousin is now sleeping with my ex......Im mad about it because that is breaking the code. Now I have a new boyfriend we have been together for 3 1/2 months.... I have strong feelings for my new boyfriend..... I just need to know am I wrong for feeling the way I feel about the situation considering I have a new man and all
2007-01-19 08:42:48 · 11 answers · asked by babygurl2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, you have the right to be mad at your cousin. First of all that is breaking the rule. she should have more respect for you. But picture this if she can't respect you then she can't respect yourself as a woman. You r not doing anything wrong about feeling the way u r just because u have a new man. Just don't do the same thing to her and be the bigger person.
2007-01-19 08:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 10:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your cousin is in violation of code321 she should not be sleeping with or dating any man that has had a relationship with another family member. you are not wrong for feeling the way you do but que sera sera let it go being you have a new man just dont ever trust her again!!!
2007-01-19 08:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by soniablade914 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not wrong. That would be like me dating one of my sisters ex boyfriends. Ewww!! I would never do it. Sounds like she doesnt have any respect for you. I would concentrate on your new boyfriend if I were you and forget about your cousin.
2007-01-19 08:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by pebbles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually kinda gross that she's doing that. It's understandable for you to be angry. You should discuss your feelings with her, but don't be surprised if she keeps dating him. He doesn't have to be off limits to her forever. The thing is if you are uncomfortable with the situation, you are going to have to let her know that you can't be around them at the same time.
2007-01-19 08:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by KK1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...were you in love with this guy? Does your cousin seem to be in love with him? Personally, I think it is silly how we women have that "rule". Unless of course you were emotionally attached to the guy in question.
2007-01-19 09:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by TheOriginalSin♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl .. that's like denise & heather all over again! it's a no-no. i think that you're angry because moreso of your betrayal from your cousin than from him. but you know what -- you're already doing it -- moving on and you are the better person for it -- she has to live with her conscience. enjoy your new man.
2007-01-19 08:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by Faerie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's wrong, you're right. :-) Hang in there and see what happens, your cousin is evil.
2007-01-19 09:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your cousin should have talk to you about it before hand and let you known her attentions
2007-01-19 09:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by stanley w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I understand completely. I would be upset too. your family, family isn't supposed to do that to each other.
2007-01-19 09:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋