Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

2007-01-18 18:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by sams 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone says my friend looks like him. You can really see there similarities when Michael has stubble (how he looks on the show) and my friend has stubble too and has a buzz cut, but I couldn't find any stubble pics of Michael.

Michael: http://www.bloxer.de/upload/serien/prison-break/michael-scofield.jpg

My friend, John: http://a457.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/30/l_c21a2403a10f22fc47b305b6f4d5b170.jpg

2007-01-18 18:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy for about 5 months. He's great, sensitive, caring, a great listener. We see each other several days each week and yes, we're having sex...great sex. He's introduced me to his son and his mother, we've shared holidays and I help him in his office. However, he avoids any discussions of feelings, if I mention them in an email or IM he doesn't respond. His physical affection is somewhat limited to sex...although he will occationally hold my hand. I decided to tell him that I was falling in love with him...I had to do it by email because he won't talk about feelings...his answer was. "I definately have feelings of love for you...but I'm not "in love" with you at this point...however I feel the day may come and for now everything is good."
What are the chances that he will actually fall "in love" with a me? Or, is it more likely that I am Ms. Right Now? I'm not into wasting tons of time on someone that isn't going to love me back...Help!

2007-01-18 18:22:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 18:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by Desiree 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 18:22:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-18 18:20:18 · 16 answers · asked by SOL SIREN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When he broke up with his girlfriend around 3 months ago i went over 2 his ex's house, You know me trying to see if i can get some so we were talking and we ended up making out and having sex, He is going back out with her and she told him she had something to tell him in person he really loves this girl, I think she is gonna tell him about me and her, What should i do!?!?!

2007-01-18 18:17:55 · 16 answers · asked by Pimpsta© 2 in Singles & Dating

i am with my long time boyfriend of 8 years he is also my first and only bf. we had 2 gorgeous kids, but i still can't get over a fling sweety relationship i had 6 years ago. It was when my relationship w/ my bf got giddy. this other guy and I sended flirt text messages and sweet nothings then, it all ended when my bf and I got back together. I find myself crazy like a weird silent stalker. I still sometimes try to look for him on the net. like secretly view his profile, hoping to see him in the mall. i feel like such a cheat on my bf and kids for doing it. I wonder how i can totally get over him. he's still single and available as of the moment. Is it normal for a person to not get over someone?

2007-01-18 18:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by Kady_14 2 in Singles & Dating

we are bla-bla-bla from the very childhood.
She infringes me. She shouts on me and says how much I am irrepaceable. I also have a bad temper but she is stronger.
this friendship became a duty. How can I teach her a lesson to respect me? (this summer we even had a fight because I went away when she yelled at me, and I lost this fight). but then she cried and asked to forgive her. I am fed up. I am human. what to do?

2007-01-18 18:15:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i asked my crush to a dance and he said yes (i said as friends, but umm... well thats not exactly true :)

well we still dont talk very much. only hi and bye. i really want to talk to him and i want to text him or just start talking to him but im kinda scared to do so beucase i dont want to bug him. but i mean hes going with me to the dance so at least he likes me in some way but i dont know....

i kind of avoid (not really avoid ) him becuase im a little shy and scared when it comes to this stuff and he doesnt talk much why? i dont know. do you think he possibly feels the same way? were both scared/shy to talk to each other? and i will hang out with him at the dance of course but i want to get to know before we go. should i just make the first move, again?

2007-01-18 18:15:50 · 10 answers · asked by ... 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 18:13:44 · 25 answers · asked by patatim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have been together for 3 yrs....Im 21 and shes 18, we were both virgins, and have only had sex with each other, when we first started having sex, it was wonderful like a few times a day but after our daughter (now 2yrs old btw) was born it decreased a lil but it was still like a few times a week. even while she was pregnant we still had great sex, but now shes pregnant with our second child, it seems to have grinded to a halt, I love her with all my heart, and would never cheat on her, just as she wouldnt cheat on me. but i just want to kno what should i do?....or is there any way to safely boost her sex drive or lower mine?

2007-01-18 18:13:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfirend and I are very close. Her best friend gets really jealous because of it. Like, for instance, when I'm holding my girlfirends hand she has to hold my gf's other hand, its pretty rediculous. She even cuts in on us when we're kissing. (At school) Its my gf's best friend and she feels really awkward holding another girls hand esp. when I'm holding hers at the same time. I feel like I have to compete with my gf's best friend for my gf's attention and I don't think I should have to. My gf's friend is very emotionally unstable, to the point of self mutilation and my gf (understandably) doesn't want to hurt her more and hear about what she does to herself (gf says it gets really graphic and her friend makes it out to be my gf's fault) My gf doesn't know what to do, she wants to be with me but on the other hand she has to give her friend all of her attention to keep her friend from hurting herself. Sometimes I feel shut out but neither one of us are sure what to do. Suggestions?

2007-01-18 18:13:13 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a friend that has been my friend for almost 7 years but she never let me have any other friends and she always got mad and when she did she would hurt people like punching, kicking, hitting, and scraching. We r no longer friends and i've been able to make new friends REAL FRIENDS and i luv it but, i still wake up from night marrs about somthing realy bad she did and i can never seem to sleep any more... what do i do?

2007-01-18 18:12:41 · 1 answers · asked by Phyched4Christ 1 in Friends

I met the man of my drems blond hair, blue eyesand six foot talk everything I wanted. The problem is he has 2 children on who he has been treated like a baby all her life.She is 7 but still acts like a 2yr old. The other one has ADHD and hates my guts. Woun't do anything I saywhen his dad is at work. we have been seeing each other for 1 year and17 days today he wants to get married I want to be with him. Should I just give up on this relationship or not?

2007-01-18 18:12:11 · 17 answers · asked by Knight 2 in Friends

So, I had gotten tired of the guy who I have been in love with for the last 7 years - of his possessiveness and always him being in control. He would call me when he'd feel like it and he would see me only to his convenience. Well, I thought I had gotten over him after so much pain and heartache on making up my mind. So, I was wrong. He called me out of the blue and said that he was going to be in town and that he wanted for me to meet him somewhere and take him something to eat for him and his friend. I pondered on it and I finally did. I got there and my heart melted. I pretended to be friendly and I gave him the food and I just talked to him like an old friend, but everything changed when all of a sudden he grabbed my hand and led me inside the house. He started kissing me hard and with passion; I let him and kissed him back. All of a sudden - he told me that he had to go, but that he would call me back later so that we could meet. No call; he played me again.

2007-01-18 18:11:28 · 26 answers · asked by Ladyinred 2 in Singles & Dating

If marriage is a man made act, where did adultery come from? Adam and Eve were not marriage because there were no sins or people when they where created.

If chastity is more difficult keep nowadays, and I believe it is because the ability to procreate is achievable at a very young age. Can we say that the Bible did not see this coming?

Did Solomon have many wives?

2007-01-18 18:11:22 · 2 answers · asked by Thinker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What the hell can I do about my 2 brothers. They have this thing with stealing and going through my things EVERYDAY when im at work. One of them is 15 and the other is 10. I have bought several doorknobs for my door because they are busting them while breaking into my room. I have replaced the piece of trim for the door many many times because they are prying it off to get in there. I have yelled, Screamed, Left notes, Trashed their room, Everything!! And yet both of them deny it and blame one another. My dad is lazy he sits on the computer all day when he gets home from work. I have asked him to deal with it several times and he blows it off. What can I do?

2007-01-18 18:11:16 · 12 answers · asked by thugshady06 2 in Family

Recently left my husband, fell out of love. Started having affair w/ married boss, I know it is stupid, but we fell in love. It has been 3 months and he said he was trying to leave his wife and has not. She is not from the US, and her customs are different. I broke it off 2 days ago and am completely crushed. How I know he loves me, but why cant he fix the situation?

2007-01-18 18:09:48 · 11 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 18:07:14 · 9 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Singles & Dating

im very active as far as sex is concerned but my wife keeps conditions b4 we can have sex upto a point where my sex drive has gone down. i have been thinking of having a mistress to spice up my life but my wife is very emotional if she found out i was cheating on her she has threatened to kill herself and my two daughters and i feel as if im trapped in a cycle of unhappiness and blackmail,sometimes she makes some very bad comments about me.....im really confused and feel hopeless and divorce is out question my kids are too young to subject them to any hussles and i really love my 2 girls

2007-01-18 18:06:13 · 16 answers · asked by michael 1 in Marriage & Divorce

could he tell it suprised you?

2007-01-18 18:05:30 · 4 answers · asked by meagen k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 18:03:03 · 18 answers · asked by Satyam 1 in Singles & Dating

A married guy who knows me, but not very well, but i know he is attracted to me told me 'i am in love with you' but i replied 'you can't be, you hardly know me' and he replied ' i was only joking'. Why would a guy 'joke' about something like that, seems a bit strange. What do you think? Your opinion wanted!

2007-01-18 18:02:43 · 19 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You've been going out almost 2 years, and the friend that is in question, you rarely talk to anyway. But, shouldn't it about the principle of the thing?

2007-01-18 18:02:16 · 10 answers · asked by wildkid740 2 in Friends

ive always wanted to save myself for the woman of my dreams but sometimes it seems like i better get in touch with reality and start getting it on. or at least being able to show affection. my most recent girlfriend broke up with my because i wouldnt kiss her. im worried i may have been at fault because most gf/bf relationships involve regular sex and definatly kissing. im a decent looking guy and have had a couple of girlfriends and they have all left for the same reason. am i so wrong for wanting to preserve myself for my wife? im not criticizing what anyone else does, but wondering if maybe i am a bit extreme in my actions (extreme is never good unless its the X games)

2007-01-18 18:02:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In all seriousness, every time I hear other men complaining about, how thier 'wive's nag' them to almost death.

I can understand why they are complaining! As after two relationships (approx 10yrs with each) I have been nagged over trivial matter's too.

I would get home after a hard days work to
"did you do BLAH!"
(an erand at lunch)
& before she's even taken onboard a breath of fresh air, the last six months come up???
So they'd proceed to carry on all night (NAG!) about one shi.tty mistake over because I could'nt get there,
or picking on me,
My first wife started sticking ciggy butts in my beer because she felt I had enough already!

Look I could really make a meal of this, but I do not wish to offend any ladies,
so 'PLEASE' tell me/us WHY?

Why do you nag nag nag nag nag nag,?

I recently got engaged & already she's telling me what I can & cannot do,
My feet are coolin right down (cold feet)
I'm over it,
BAN THE:
NAG NAG NAG!!

2007-01-18 17:58:34 · 28 answers · asked by devilinme 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We were soo in love. Soo happy. He was soo good to me, I was soo good to him. This past summer got married. We were the happiest. A few months later, found out I was pregnant. Even more happy! We thought we were each others soul mates. Well, at least I did. Around Thankgiving holiday, I go to visit my family for the hoilday for the weekend. When I return, everything was still the same.Happy. Great. Same ole same ole. Well, one day I got on to my hubbies myspace page, and found out he was talking to all these girls, telling them he wasn't married, that he was single, living life the best way he can. So I asked about it, and he snapped, went crazy, said some very hateful stuff. Then I decided since he wasn't gonna give up on his "online life" that I'd separate from him. Well, I did, and now I'm back with my parents. We are planning on going getting a divorce as soon as we can get the money together.Found out he's met someone online, and been telling her he loves her...how can he??

2007-01-18 17:58:26 · 12 answers · asked by mommy2be031207 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I know why but I want to see if your opinion on this matches what I am thinking. Thanks.

2007-01-18 17:58:03 · 13 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys if you heard from your friends that a girl is a s.l.u.t. and it's true would you go out with her?
She's a sweet girl, but at times she gets moody. Would you go out with a girl like that?

2007-01-18 17:57:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating