2007-01-18 18:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by Desiree 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he really wanted you, he'd be with you.
2007-01-18 18:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh no you are in a crisis situation,and I can feel your pain far away. But what can you do at this point ? Love triangle and what about children from both sides? I hate to judge you at this point. remember a man always talks but no action. You need to communicate with him effectively by asking him the right question. " do you want me back in your life and what are you going to do with her? ( your Y ) and What is next step should we take? " Then you two can plan a life map together again. I can not analyze you much since you only give me 2 sentences to go on. Remember children are part of your family so learn how to work with each other and see how you can make it works. By the way,make sure you two have good lawyers in case his wife does not give him up easily. I really hate to break a family but, since you married to him first so I will take your side.
2007-01-18 18:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of dealt with these feelings before you signed divorce papers. If he married someone else he really was not thinking about you. And if he wants you back how can he lay down next to his current wife every night and make love to her. I just think you both are playing a game you know YOU WANT WHAT YOU CAN NOT HAVE GAME. Stay away and look for a true companion
2007-01-18 18:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by melonch1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just want to share my experience and testimony here..my name is Louis from UK i was married for 6 years to my husband and all of a sudden,another woman came into the picture.. he started hailing me and he was abusive..but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost?then he filed for divorce..my whole life was turning apart and i didn't know what to do..he moved out of the house and abandoned the kids.. so someone told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster?so i decided to try it reluctantly..although i didn't believe in all those things? then when he did the special prayers and spell, after two days, my husband came back and was pleading..he had realized his mistakes..i just couldn't believe it.. any ways we are back together now and we are happy..in case anyone needs this man, his email address drokosunspelltemple@yahoo.com, his spells is for a better life.
2014-06-12 11:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dr Okosun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you back, but wants to be married to someone else, so leave him alone. You are better off moving on with your life. He has made his choice.
2007-01-18 18:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Danger, danger! Marriage is very sacred. Your husband is married. You should respect that relationship and not do anything that could possibly break it apart. If he thinks it's not for him that's his problem. Don't you make the mistake of trying to break it up.
2007-01-18 18:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-18 11:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is married to another, accept it, if he divorces her and comes back than he is yours, but if he is just saying alot of words, words mean nothing at all. can't count on words, if his marriage is not happy he will have to be the one who leaves it without any help from u, if it is meant to be it will be.
2007-01-19 00:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you why both of you divorced in the first place. I think he may just to flirt around with you
2007-01-18 21:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on you had your time. Two wrongs don't make a right. Find someone who will be true to you.
2007-01-18 18:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Krazee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time he asks you such a question again... ask him what about his current wife?
i feel you should start your life afresh without him.
i would like to share something nasty about some of my guy friends:
i know guys who tell their ex-es they still want them back/ their ex-es are still important to them simply because they pity them and dont want them to feel they are totally worthless. :X
2007-01-19 13:52:19 · answer #11 · answered by alibaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋