Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

My best friend is entangled with two in her heart . A is a guy v busy with career...B works stable Mon-Fri job. A always says he is busy n only meet her wee hours once a week. In the beginning, A forced himself on her,n she totally hates him for that as at the point of time she likes him and cant imagine he could do that. After days, she being confused..kept in contact with him again n got close. Believe me, this friend of mine is real faithful in her past relationships and aint no ****. Do you believe that she actually fell for A after some time ? I believe as some things in this world isnt impossible. While A kept going missing, she wanted to give up and met B. B is ever ready for her, very sweet n sincere to her..but she found out that B tells his best friends abt their make outs. She didnt confront B. B is still very sweet to her and ever tear when she hints to leave B one day. Who will you choose? What will you do? She believes tt A is not tt bad but she may be blinded...

2007-01-18 17:13:57 · 5 answers · asked by Chanelle 1 in Singles & Dating

So, heres the deal. Last year was my junior year, so september of 2005 I started going out with a girl named stephanie. I didn't think it was anything special at first until we hit the three month spot. Then we started to do the normal teenager things... but she was a sophomore at the time, keep that in mind.

Now when I say normal things, I don't mean sex. I mean make out (did that 2 weeks after we hooked up), you know, grope, that kind of stuff... and then the topic of sex came about around 4 months.... surprisingly not by me. She wanted to know what I thought. I told her that maybe later in the relationship, until then lets have fun. Well, back ground about her. Her dad was a raging alcoholic and died because of it, which drove her to say she'd never ever do anything like that. Well, in may of 06', we broke up because we were growing apart... we still never had sex because I didn't want her to regret anything and she still had two years ahead of her. but now shes drinking... (c)

2007-01-18 17:13:50 · 6 answers · asked by Eric K 2 in Singles & Dating

we broke up about 7 moths ago and i think she still has feeling for me and i still have feeling for her i am a little shy about asking girls out and stuff cause i have had my heart broken many times what should i do to find out if she still has feelings for me

2007-01-18 17:12:33 · 8 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 6 months, my husband has no children ,and my ex husband is in jail so i am getting no support, and my new husband tells me that he is being used by a dead beat in jail and it is not his responsibility to take care of the kids, and i am not working because he brought all of us to another country to live with him while he works. he told me last night he would let me know when he couldnt take it anymore.. more or less he said when he gets ready for a divorce he'll let me know.. what do i do ..all of this started over me letting the kids play 1 sport each a year.he said i cant afford it and i said i was going home and going back to work. and he said it was stupid.help married single mom

2007-01-18 17:12:07 · 6 answers · asked by genapinkard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...their guys 2b confident and cocky, or kinda weak and skinny?

2007-01-18 17:09:44 · 11 answers · asked by habib122873 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin and I have been close ever since we were little. We are about 5 years apart age wise. She's 14 and I'm now 19. As of late she's been kinda withdrawing from the family and hanging out with the wrong crowd. Her parents and my grandma have been fighting (we are second cousins and her mother says that our grandma treats me better than her(the mom) (.. thats the main problem). I see her about once every 5 months now (I usually have my uncle come pick me up and we go over to her house), and we don't even talk. I try to say "hi" now and then... via myspace or facebook, and she won't even respond, yet she responds to all her other friends/relatives?

She's very rude when I try to IM her and start a conversation.. and I'm fearing that between the fighting in the family and her "cool" friends (they're the popular clique who like to get drunk and cause trouble late at night/sneaking out) she's going to get in trouble... what can I do? Talking doesn't get us anywhere.

2007-01-18 17:09:41 · 2 answers · asked by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3 in Family

My wife left me in March 1999 and I cannot go on with my life. I still feel like she is my wife and I am still deeply in love with her even though I know she will never come back. Is this normal?

2007-01-18 17:09:07 · 33 answers · asked by elayas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is a guy that i like at school but i dont know if he likes me back.... how the hell can u tell if a guy likes u back... i mean he sits accross the room from me and she stares at me all the tyme?!?!?!

2007-01-18 17:08:35 · 12 answers · asked by awsomehottierocks 1 in Singles & Dating

then ignored you the next time she saw you

and the next time around, asked you out again?

She's hot too.

2007-01-18 17:08:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet him in friendster he want to talk with me...all was v. nice...but I can't meet him...he live in another town...but he say to me I am a v. beautiful woman....but when once send me e-mail I saw he had more girlfriends...not just me...but I want to be first in his heart...I write him an e-mail say :u have enough girlfriend why u want me too?And he say:I want to be friend with u ...I want a nice relationship with u ...but it take time.So I don't know what to belive...what to do?Write him let me I don't want to be one of 23?

2007-01-18 17:08:04 · 10 answers · asked by Cristiana T 1 in Singles & Dating

I tell him he is all the time but he says he isnt. I need to know if you guys think he is. If we all call him a liar together, he'll have to admit it. He once convinced a bunch of people that squirrels only eat 40 acorns in their life. He said he saw it on National Geographic. I checked, and its a total lie. He also said he liked the movie Rent. I checked on that too, and nobody likes that movie (except for metro college kids). So tell me people, does that (and many other things) make him a liar?

2007-01-18 17:07:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last week when she sent me a mail. It was about her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me

2007-01-18 17:06:12 · 8 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

being a young teen, most of my teen friends own their own digital camera, and u know how teens are (other then myself) they LOVE uploading pics onto their 'webpage' (ex-Myspace)....WELL I HATE THAT!!, and I'm Paranoid if some one will take my pic and then upload it on the internet!

People can Easily STEAL my photo, and try to imposter me, and try to make a whole new identity saying that my face is theirs...(THIS HAPPENS ALOT IN THE INTERNET WORLD)
and even make a hateful webpage with my picture
or even pedafiles staring at my picture,
I'm paranoid, I FIND IT HARD how people couldn't be either!

Theres this event where i have to go to (MY friend's 16th BIG- B-day bash, which is in a banquet hall), and people will probably want to take my pic, HOW CAN I AVOID HAVING MY PICTURE TAKEN, without seeming rude???

2007-01-18 17:01:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

who was adopted & born in November 1983 in Rochester NY? He is my nephew that I am looking for.My 87 year old Mother & I would like to meet him again.

2007-01-18 17:01:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well, I'm now convinced (from a former question) that women have the power to hypnotize men to do whatever they want. Exactly how do you women do it?

2007-01-18 17:00:29 · 24 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl is pissed off at me cuz the last time we went out, she broke up with me cuz she just wanted to be friends, so i said "hey ur the shortest relationship with a girl i've had so far, thats a record" and she got pissed and thought that i used her to break the record for most dated girls!?

2007-01-18 17:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its been 3 and half years we r in relation,we never had sex,cause i wanted to sleep with only one person in my life,n that will be my husband,even he was a nice guy n never forced me,we really loved each other,but when i was outta country,someother gal started seducing him n forcing him to leave me,that gal even doesnt know me,they hided from me for 4 months,cz he knew i'll spoil all ma exams,so when ma exams got over he told me what all they did,n he is sorry,n she hates that gal,but he had to do whatever she asked,cause she was blackmailing him,n telling him if u dont sleep with me i'll tell everythiing to ur gf,n screw her exams,when i came back he introduced that gal to me,she even stayed in ma house for almost one month,n i took good care of her,didnt know she is such a slut who is abusing ma bf,now ma bf is really sorry,n he wants to be back,n he really hates that gal,what should i do? should i forgive him or not? he is gonna be here for another 6 months

2007-01-18 16:59:52 · 20 answers · asked by S S 1 in Friends

Last night I wen to a party and I put myself in a situation that should never happened. I got drunk and allowed a guy to dance with me or more like grind on me. Following that I allowed him to drag me into a bathroom which he claimed that he thought I had to throw up but seemed more interested in trying to hook up with me. Nothing happened and anytime he tried to iniate anything I would tell him no that I have a boyfriend. I know that this doesn't seem like a big deal to some but to me I was disgusted that I allowed this situation to get even that far. I ended up telling my boyfriend what happened because I could not keep this hidden. He says he still loves but he just needs to think. What can I do???

2007-01-18 16:59:06 · 23 answers · asked by bzrunner 1 in Singles & Dating

What if you just need help keeping the dam thing down?

2007-01-18 16:59:04 · 8 answers · asked by IMA SUCK@SS 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 16:59:01 · 11 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Friends

The road to success is not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a loop called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights called Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have flats called Jobs. But, if you have a spare called Determination, an engine called Perseverance, insurance called Faith, a driver called Jesus, you will make it to a place called Success. Pass it on to ten people whom you want to see blessed.

God bless!

2007-01-18 16:58:44 · 3 answers · asked by jvbaker06 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.

2007-01-18 16:58:43 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

So, heres the deal. Last year was my junior year, so september of 2005 I started going out with a girl named stephanie. I didn't think it was anything special at first until we hit the three month spot. Then we started to do the normal teenager things... but she was a sophomore at the time, keep that in mind.

Now when I say normal things, I don't mean sex. I mean make out (did that 2 weeks after we hooked up), you know, grope, that kind of stuff... and then the topic of sex came about around 4 months.... surprisingly not by me. She wanted to know what I thought. I told her that maybe later in the relationship, until then lets have fun. Well, back ground about her. Her dad was a raging alcoholic and died because of it, which drove her to say she'd never ever do anything like that. Well, in may of 06', we broke up because we were growing apart... we still never had sex because I didn't want her to regret anything and she still had two years ahead of her. but now shes drinking... (c)

2007-01-18 16:58:33 · 2 answers · asked by Eric K 2 in Singles & Dating

i know this is a odd question but my grandmother passed away on the 14th and my husband has wanted to..well you know...but i feel as if it is wrong or i dont know should i feel this way?

2007-01-18 16:57:50 · 28 answers · asked by Hello Kitty!! 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever know of anyone who did this? And, WHY? Well, I think I know of someone-but I am not sure. He is my friend's bro......he has friends; he is a very likable person-but a very private one too. He has a facebook and well, he has nothing on it-no info. except his name and hometown and pics. that people have taged him on. And, he hasnt had a girlfriend in a longtime-he's 24. He HAS definitely changed since etnering the military-he goes to a military academy. It seems to me, he's become very introvert; he wasn't the outgoing type-but was liked; know it seems like he is open to friendhsips; but he at the same time keeps a lot to himself-even his close friends have kind of wondered. So, I almost feel like is trying tom communicate withsomeone; but someone he trusts-but in a deeper level-and I feel like I could be it-but it's something I sense; not comfirm. How do I apporach him without offending him? Do you think I could be on to something...and he is trying to say something?

2007-01-18 16:56:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to kiss my boyfriend but everytime i get ready to i chicken out what did i do (did i mention its my first kiss)

2007-01-18 16:55:45 · 2 answers · asked by sk8tersarah929 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 29 and it's been 13 months for me because of severe depression and unemployment.

2007-01-18 16:55:14 · 15 answers · asked by AL IS ON VACATION AND HAS NO PIC 5 in Singles & Dating

WELL... my old friend, likes my boyfriend and they talk alot on the phone. i want her to BACK OF but how do i tell her. and how do i tell my boyfriend to plz stop HELP ME!!!!

2007-01-18 16:53:44 · 6 answers · asked by sk8tersarah929 1 in Singles & Dating

there angering me upsetting me stressing me out and making me haverust close and anger issues and wanting to and feelig like i have toisolate and already moved what other extremes i need to do and take to get them to leave me alone and move on with there lives and let me and others close to me move on with our lives

2007-01-18 16:53:24 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

2007-01-18 16:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating