My best friend is entangled with two in her heart . A is a guy v busy with career...B works stable Mon-Fri job. A always says he is busy n only meet her wee hours once a week. In the beginning, A forced himself on her,n she totally hates him for that as at the point of time she likes him and cant imagine he could do that. After days, she being confused..kept in contact with him again n got close. Believe me, this friend of mine is real faithful in her past relationships and aint no ****. Do you believe that she actually fell for A after some time ? I believe as some things in this world isnt impossible. While A kept going missing, she wanted to give up and met B. B is ever ready for her, very sweet n sincere to her..but she found out that B tells his best friends abt their make outs. She didnt confront B. B is still very sweet to her and ever tear when she hints to leave B one day. Who will you choose? What will you do? She believes tt A is not tt bad but she may be blinded...
2007-01-18 17:13:57 · 5 answers · asked by Chanelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Male "A" forced himself on her is reason enough to run screaming from his presence. Male "B", while he exercises his bragging rights to his friends to a degree is otherwise about a mile higher in quality of treatment. Male "A" is pondscum, Male "B" is not, therefor Male "A" gets jettisoned pronto.
2007-01-18 17:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your friend needs is more time to think.. The problem is we tend to forget that there is someone who can always help us in situations like this, and that is God.. Her decision today will affect her future when he chooses the wrong guy.. A little heart to heart talk with God isn't so bad, she can ask God's guidance with the decision she's going to make..
God has a great plan for each and everyone of us, it's up to us if we accept that plan or not.. We are busy doing many things that we sometimes forget to hear from God..
"For surely I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope. Then when you call upon me and come and pray to me, I will hear you." (Jeremiah 29:11-12)
I hope my answer helped you and your friend as well. Trust God with your future.. Take care & You are Blessed!! c",)
2007-01-18 17:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A forced himself on her.
and is taking her for granted with all the MIA.
B is a kiss & tell...
if he is really sincere about your friend... he would want to keep whatever that happens under the bedsheet private as a form of respect, isn't it?
i dont seem to see either one as a good-man/bf-material.
i think your friend needs to think it through what exactly does she seek for in a guy. BGR is not the only thing in life...
she doesnt have to force herself to choose.
but if both are just as good and feelings for both are just as strong... maybe trying to build on the relationship between the person who loves her more seems more sound.
being loved is a blessing...
2007-01-19 14:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by alibaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend should ditch both A & B and have a break - hopefully while she is having that break she will find a loving and wonderfull option C who will love her, respect her, and will enjoy spending all his free time with her!!!! Tell her to lose the 2 losers!!!
2007-01-18 17:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose the one who love me because he will try his best to make me happy and over the time I will love the person who's making me happy.
2007-01-18 17:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋