Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last week when she sent me a mail. It was about her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me
2007-01-18 17:06:12 · 8 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to say, but you have to detach, give it up. She blew you
off at Christmas which she would not have done if she cared
about you the way you seem to want, and long distance
relationships only cause problems. It is not what you want
to hear, I know, but you have to let it go, and maybe you can
be close to her sometime in the future.
The thing many women do in this circumstance is that they
use the guy just to have someone on the hook to talk to, to
make them feel good. It is not going to make you feel good
to play that role in her life, so move on. You may see her
again in the future perhaps, but for now, end it on your
terms and you will feel better.
2007-01-18 17:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by themountainviewguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you've waited for her this long you might as well keep it up and be patient. Know it's hard I'm not very patient. But I would keep
e-mailing her so she knows you still care for her. Trust me a big ice storm hit Missouri(where I live) and the power went out and everything, but not the phones and I would have appreciated it if he would have called, but he came over to my house once the roads were clear enough to drive on. Just keep in touch and let her know how much you care b4 she moves on. She'll thank you later on.
2007-01-19 01:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably thinks of you as a dear friend, and it seems likely that you can be a lifeline from home to her while she is overseas. Drop the outing, and do not expect the long-distance relationship part to work out to anything while she is away. If you like her as a friend, which it seems, then be her friend. Perhaps later things can work out in a more romantic fashion, just do not expect it to do so.
2007-01-19 01:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is focussed on other things more than you are focussed on her. Back your emotions off or you will get hurt. She isn't looking for a couples thing in the middle of her studies. Try and keep it friends and perhaps a better date in time will bring you both closer romantically...good luck.
2007-01-19 01:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her you must forget your stubbornness. Stubornness never pays and it makes you look like a kid. The girl is older and more mature, so behave like a man. Yes you write to her and as the saying goes 'if you want the woman, you must woo her, and never take 'no' as an answer'. She has not told you 'no', only she is busy. Keep wooing her, she has not forbidden you to do it, and one day, at a weak moment, she may succumb to you.
2007-01-19 01:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this girl has quite the busy schedule, so be understanding. It is hard to tell if she really is interested or not. I think that you should definitely email her and even ask her about your plans and all. Just keep it light hearted
Good luck! :]
2007-01-19 01:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it where me; I would never speak to her again! She clearly doesn't care about you. Shes just playing games. You gotta be tough with them now! She may turn around and get mad for the fact that you no longer talk to her. But she wants somebody to get on their knees and beg. Well with me I say F.U.C.K. you *********. rather than beg. It works for me! With all the other women out there you can forget one.
2007-01-19 01:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her make the next move.
2007-01-19 01:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋