Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

2007-01-18 17:55:15 · 3 answers · asked by mv61 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok.. we use to watch porn , once in a while together.. was great fun.. then i found him once chatting (cyber sex) broke my trust and months later he started looking at porn behind my back .. and lying about it.. and now he has stopped porn .. but goes to various.. sites like myspace.. etc.. to look at regular nude women.. he knows it hurts me and he does it rarely .. but swears each time he wont do it again.. and then has a lapse like a month later.. what do i do?

2007-01-18 17:53:51 · 20 answers · asked by unsure24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This boy within a vry short time became my closest frnd..& ive grown a vry firm trust on him.i usually dnt share my probs wit othrs.but i dnt hesitate 2 share my probs with him...i care fr him a lot..it hurts me like nythng whn he is sad.instead of consoling him ,i myself become sad.at times i hurt him 2 hurt myself(dats whn im angry on myself)...is it love???..or its jst frndship?

2007-01-18 17:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by luicy 1 in Friends

a) an icy winter wonderland, colors would be white and ice blue. There would be specialty drinks that would be ice blue, and it would be ultra formal.

b) a summer picnic, with casual food, held outdoors, colors brown and violet. It would be a buffet and very informal.

c) a fall, elegant, wedding, ultra formal, held outdoors with the food being most appetizers and desserts. There would be a lot of gold trimmings, but it would not be a main color. It would have the same kind of atmosphere as an event at a formal winery

2007-01-18 17:51:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

could he tell or did either of u ever mention it

2007-01-18 17:51:28 · 6 answers · asked by meagen k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 17:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 17:49:18 · 2 answers · asked by sonia s 1 in Singles & Dating

she says that they're just friends and shes really trust worthy its just that part of me doesnt feel comfortable..

2007-01-18 17:48:53 · 5 answers · asked by Happy Helper 1 in Singles & Dating

My Daughter dad is calling my best friend to find about his Daughter.So he calls her once a month to find out.His phone don't work half the time I guess he has a pay as you go phone and don't kept up with the MIn. I want none thing to do with him.He wants me to have the # and I told her to tell him that I don't want it. He is not a good father for my Daughter. I have friends that are better to her than her own dad. My daughter is asking about her Dad and I tell her I don't know were he is. What should i be telling her. She sometime call other people Dad and they are not. I more happy without him being around and I don't have to have my daughter lie about being around her Dad. He drinks around her sometime but puts it into a cup so she don't know what it is. Then he acts dumb.She has a Dad figure that is her Grandpa. She don't need anyone else.I live with my parents and had to go to part time job because of him.I had a full time job that I love and had to give it up because of babysat

2007-01-18 17:48:29 · 11 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Family

First of all i am not a bum i only live with my parents because i pay for everything else...tuition, car, bills, insurance, food, EVERYTHING!!!! and have been doing so for the past 4 years which is why i cant afford my own place.... i am a full time student and work 5-6 nights a week, i do almost everything around the house chore wise, and i have soo much respect for my parents... i almost never go out but when i do i never hear the end of it! i'm 21 and cant stay out later than 11, i dont know what else to do.

2007-01-18 17:48:20 · 24 answers · asked by kelsy 2 in Friends

if you treat a girl really bad...for ex...when u fight...u call her names n' put her down..and curse at her...does that mean you don't respect her enough to be faithful to her? or is respect and infedelity 2 totally different things to u guys? is there such thing as verbally being abusive and just plain being mean to your girl but you would never think of cheating on your girl? or does that go hand in hand...if you don't respect her enough then you'd probably cheat on her...

2007-01-18 17:47:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i cant believe ma bf,he said he was in pain n upset cause i had fight with him,n i was outta country,so other gal who was madly in love with him,sat on him,n started,n then he also smooched her,n she put her on bed n sat on him,n they had sex,but how is that possible? they knew each other for one week,n iam in relation with him for 3 n half years,how could he do that? but he did it once n after that he stopped that gal,n they just had sex once or twice,god knows,dont guys need love n affection ? or its just a matter of sex n gal,n is it possible if they dont like a gal ,they 'll have sex with her/

2007-01-18 17:46:45 · 15 answers · asked by S S 1 in Friends

My wife has done nothing but blame me for our split, now I find out that she has been having an affair with her boss. I decided to inform her boss's wife of the affair, now she has retaliated by taking out a summons for domestic violence on me even though none has occurred. My world is turning upside down. She did nothing but profess her love for me last weekend, now I get this. Please help!!!

2007-01-18 17:46:22 · 10 answers · asked by lovenotlost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 17:45:12 · 10 answers · asked by night_age_germany 4 in Singles & Dating

I invited this guy over for coffee tomorrow that I've been dating for about two weeks. I don't want to waste my time and want to sort of interview him (of course I'll make it casual so he doesn't feel like he's applying for a job lol) But what sort of questions should I ask? I want to make sure he's not a whack job or a loser. Thanx in advance for your suggestions :)

2007-01-18 17:45:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 17:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by krishna 1 in Singles & Dating

I missed out on childhood because I had to grow up fast to support my parents. I'm still not ready to get old. I've always been taking good care of how I look. I'm 38 but I look 28. My husband is 6 yrs younger than me so I always feel that I have to look good for him all the time. He is gorgeous, sexy and young. I've been battling with weight for almost all my life and always managed to maintain a good figure. Now I'm starting to see a few wrinkles under my eyes and I'm panicking! Is it bad to be too conscious? Am I obsessed? Do you think it's wrong for me to want to look good all the time?

2007-01-18 17:43:52 · 7 answers · asked by Cream 2 in Singles & Dating

Does any other wives feel the military treat us like complete crap? As far as not giving a crap about us having no lives at all? I would really like to get a job, but thats impossible due to the fact that they constantly change my husbands work schedule. When I have a doctor's appts, they tell me to reschedule it or take my children with me. I am overseas, and it's not like I can just take them to a friend's house, or call in a baby sitter. Now if the appt was for him, they would be willing to give him the time to go do it, but when it comes to the wife, it's pretty much left up to me. I have no life because the military doesn't accommodate family, just the service men. All their commercials flaunt their dedication to family, but when it comes down to it, they treat us like crap. I may want to mention that, I just moved here, I don't know anyone, childcare is pretty darn expensive, and there's a lot of nonsense when it comes to me trusting my children with other people.

2007-01-18 17:43:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 17:43:10 · 10 answers · asked by chrstn 2 in Family

Well see there is this guy (my ex) Brian and well we broke up and still liked each other and then one day he said he didn't like me but see he is so pathetic he couldn't even tell me himself and now he's with a pretty, smart, athletic,and big on christanity girl Haley and im only 2 of those things and now im kinda jelouse but if anyone close found out i would be ruined even my BFFL Sarah can't know! I really want him back but i know he won't forgive me because i said some stuff that now i regret. How do i get him back. PLZ HELP!!!!

2007-01-18 17:43:05 · 13 answers · asked by arichardson94 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, what happened was, I jumped out of bed this morning and when I stood up, I felt all these hairs falling from my winnnie the pooh nightie onto my toes and I thought, these are pubic hairs here! So I lifted up my nightie and to my horror my bit was bare!! Could it have been the terrible wind and gales in the night that blew them off? Or do you think I should phone NHS direct as an emergency? sent

2007-01-18 17:41:29 · 23 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im getting married in June. My father passed away when I was 15 and his best friend has stepped up and been the father figure for my brother and I. So, I asked him to give me away for my wedding and were gonna do the father-daughter dance but I cant find a song for the life of me. I cant find a song that doesnt talk about him being my real dad, doesnt say he was around when i was born, doesnt say anything about him being involved romantically with my mom. Does anybody have any suggestions?? Please help!

2007-01-18 17:40:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ive known her for about 2 years already. When we met we clicked and became best friends and had a relationship that went deeper then anything. We had alot of fun that year, We hung out with each other every weekend and talked on the phone during the week like everyday, we talked about anything and everything and we trusted one another and in due time I started to fall for her. I tried asking her out after are friendship and relationship grew, but she didn't wana be with me. After that awkwardness grew, but we still managed to stay best friends. I took her to my senior prom also ending that year for me and I figured good things might happen, but she found a guy she dated that summer and it broke my heart. After that I did not talk to her or see her in a year because the site of me always made her depressed and I didnt know why. We got into a fight this past december seeing each other for the first time in a year and she broke down infront of me. I dont know what she might feel inside.

2007-01-18 17:40:21 · 5 answers · asked by jckhammer2 2 in Singles & Dating

There are three guys at school that are in love with me. But, i like all three of them. I'll give u their charectoristics. then tell me which one.

1. cute nice really funny great dancer we have evrything in common always comes up and talks to me at school same height

2. Nice shy sweet we have evry thing in common always asking my friends about me AIMs and calls me evry day shorter than me

3. known him since i was 3 nice cute we have evry thing in common shorter than me talks to me at school sometimes fun

2007-01-18 17:39:34 · 10 answers · asked by MaryKate D 1 in Singles & Dating

why does age difference make me a monster?

2007-01-18 17:39:09 · 8 answers · asked by thoughtfuljon 1 in Singles & Dating

Society views the father's heritage/religion as the dominant one.
So for the most part if a Jew male marries a non-Jew, the kids will be raised as Jews and identify as Jews (because it's hard not to with a last name like Goldstein)
So by instituting the matrilineal descent laws, if a non-Jew male marries a Jew, she feels that it's her duty to raise the kids as Jews and the kids knowing this information will identify as Jews.
So in the end, whatever the outcome, a union between a Jew and a non-Jew ends in Jewish kids.

2007-01-18 17:38:37 · 4 answers · asked by Julio Cesar C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 18 and he's 22. i've been with my bf for about a year. we live 40 mins away from eachother so we can only see eachother on the weekends. keep that in mind. I was at my bfs house and A girl called his phone. he didnt pick up because he told me it was his work and he didnt want his boss to tell him to come in. i took a look at his recent call list to see that he deleted the number out of his phone so i couldnt see who called. a couple minutes went by and his phone rang again. it was a girls name katie that came up on the caller ID. i accused him for deleting the number and he said he only did it because he didnt want me to worry and it was just a "crazy girl" at his work that got his number off the phone list. another thing he said is that she was only trying to cause trouble because thats how she is... what is that suppose to mean? i am not an over protective girl and i let him talk to other girls. Why would he lie if it was okay with me? hiding something and lying is alot worse.

2007-01-18 17:38:31 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

It is amazing how people respond to the question is it okay to cheat, even if the spouse does not ever become aware of the infidelity. The first thing people seem to go to is adultery which is a biblical term. That same person is committing a sin that is know less sinful than adultery by having sex out of wedlock. In addition, the reason for sex is to multiply and not for the pleasures that we get from the act, “be fruitful and multiply.” Therefore, unless a person is free from sin, one should not point fingers and judge.

2007-01-18 17:38:07 · 25 answers · asked by Thinker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

could he tell or did u ever mention it?

2007-01-18 17:37:41 · 7 answers · asked by meagen k 1 in Singles & Dating

does anyone think kids my age [15-17] don't know about love? i believe i am in love at age 17 but i want to hear other peoples opinions about it

2007-01-18 17:37:36 · 9 answers · asked by mike 1 in Other - Family & Relationships