I missed out on childhood because I had to grow up fast to support my parents. I'm still not ready to get old. I've always been taking good care of how I look. I'm 38 but I look 28. My husband is 6 yrs younger than me so I always feel that I have to look good for him all the time. He is gorgeous, sexy and young. I've been battling with weight for almost all my life and always managed to maintain a good figure. Now I'm starting to see a few wrinkles under my eyes and I'm panicking! Is it bad to be too conscious? Am I obsessed? Do you think it's wrong for me to want to look good all the time?
2007-01-18 17:43:52 · 7 answers · asked by Cream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All girls want to stay and look young. That is why there is botox. Thats normal. U can only do so much before u start ageing unless your asian. Best thing to do don't think about it cause it will affect on how u perceive yourself
2007-01-18 17:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) Wow congrats on searching so large! my mum also receives instructed she seems youthful than her age and she or he continuously receives excited. i'll understand about scuffling with weight i'm scuffling with my weight as we communicate yet to maintain a figure which resembles a 28 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous is impressive. i imagine you're being somewhat frustrating on your self, undergo in ideas once you've a impressive husband and im confident that he loves you wether you're fit, fat or although. As continuously age is continuously going to ensue you want to include this reality. Wrinkles are all aside of having previous, dont panic! attempt to seem at the different positives you've like your large figure and husband.each so often that is undesirable to be too consious as you'll start up to develop into paranoid...attempt no longer to seem for the negatives yet include each of the extreme positives on your existence.. No i dont imagine its incorrect so that you may seem good each of the time this in basic terms shows you preserve your self and thats somewhat major. desire this enables goodluck with each thing! :)
2016-10-15 10:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by serpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of us want to look good all the time -thats not unusual.but you need to come to terms with the fact that we all age, and its ok to do some maintanance,but if you put your entire purpose in life, your joy of and for living into appearance, then you are in for a long ,hard ride into middle age.the lines are going to come, but you should be able to see a beautiful lady in the mirror. and if your sexy husband loves you, he will continue to see that also.you will maintain a very attractive face, even with a few lines, i assure you. if you dont see it this way, then ,in my opinion, you are obsessing.
2007-01-18 18:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Your husband most likely didn't marry you for your looks. If the relationship has gone that far, I'm sure he's found more to love about you then just your looks, though I'm sure he appreciates you trying to look young.
2007-01-18 17:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not obsessed. You are just to try make yourself (and people around) happy. There is nothing wrong with it. And I think your husband loves you for who you are. Keep it up. ;)
2007-01-18 17:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by nycky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there is nothing wrong with caring how you look you just need to care for whom ? Yourself or others ?
2007-01-18 17:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its obsession. its more like being happy. :)
2007-01-18 17:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋