who would really think that its okay for your girlfrien to go out to lunch with other guys?

Question

she says that they're just friends and shes really trust worthy its just that part of me doesnt feel comfortable..

Answer 1

sane people

Answer 2

There's nothing wrong with your GF going out to lunch with other guys that she thinks of as just friends. She's entitled to have buddies of both genders. If she's trust worthy as you said and has never given you any doubts about her loyalty, then don't worry so much. It IS possible for some of us to be friends with guys and not be attracted to them in that way. If she has no "feelings" for these guys, then it doesn't matter..........she won't do more than lunch.

Answer 3

IF SHE IS TRUSTWORTHY, WHY DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT? my parents have been married 30 years, my mom is gone 4-5 days a week and yes she is around all kinds of men, where she works, etc. if you have trust, you shouldnt worry,
maybe you have insecurities that need addressed.
you should be happy your gf, goes to lunch with other men
for the simple fact she comes back to you each time.
that should re assure you more and more.
when she is gone for hours and doesnt tell you what it is she is doing then you can worry, she must feel like you are important enough to her, for her to indulge she is having lunch with male friends. when she starts to keep secrets then start worrying. see my point?

Answer 4

I am not a guy, but I let my husband go out with other girls for lunch, even girls that used to be former interests. And I still go out with one of my ex-boyfriends on a regular basis because we are now best friends. There are boundaries though... no going to their house alone for example.

Answer 5

Well if you really trust her, then what's the problem? She is allowed to have friends too, guys included. My boyfriend and I both have oppossite sex friends that we hang out with and we're okay with it, because we know that those are just friendships, nothing like what we have. Just chill.