Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

2007-01-18 19:15:21 · 16 answers · asked by bashfullyblessed 1 in Singles & Dating

virgo - the mediator amongst the stars

what is your opinion on male virgos?

2007-01-18 19:13:30 · 7 answers · asked by Arez 3 in Singles & Dating

alright well im about to ask this girl out for the first time, and im one of those shy guys that can barely talk to her let alone ask her out but i know she likes me so i shouldn't be denied, anyway i still have to figure out what we're gonna do if i take her out, i was thinking a picnic or even i'm a good chef i could have her over at my house and make her a nice dinner, i just don't really want to take her to a movie cause thats like 2 hours of just sitting there when we should really be getting to know each other. Anyway should i supprise her with some flowers or is that a little too tacky? Could you give me a few conversation starters cause we're both sorta on the quiet side? And when im taking her home should i try and get a kiss when i walk her to her door or should i just let it happen (if i just let it happen i probably won't notice it unless it slaps me right in the face)?

2007-01-18 19:09:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like your wife or GirlFriend? or as you mature does it not bug you as much??

2007-01-18 19:09:08 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

only looking for friendship for now. She did say she wanted to get together later. What is going on? I'm getting mixed signals?

2007-01-18 19:09:06 · 12 answers · asked by Y 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 19:08:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 19:07:07 · 7 answers · asked by DVD 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do guys seem to only initiate affection when they want sex? it seems I'm always the one who reaches for his hand or wants to be kissed. are most guys affection-phobic or am I just a lucky one? he has no problem being "hands on" when he wants sex but all other times it seems I make the first move

2007-01-18 19:04:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex and i have been broken up for 10 months recently he has been calling me everyday at work sometimes 2 times a day and then i asked him if he wanted to go to the movies and then he kept making excuses. i told him i dont have time for a phone relationship and i havent heard from him for a week. he left me and i still love him. why is he calling all the time then? why is he doing this? he is getting jelous and asking where i have been who im with and what i have been doing. what is with this?? should i send him an sms and tell him i miss him?

2007-01-18 19:02:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What are some elements of a great relationship? What's the communication like between the two people? How often should you call/send SMS?

2007-01-18 19:02:00 · 4 answers · asked by andrei . c 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in a gang and he's very abusive,possive,stalks me and crazy.I want out his relationship but i don't know how. He told me that if i left him he would kill me or he would get someone eles to do it. what should i do? I tried the police.

2007-01-18 19:01:24 · 22 answers · asked by Sonta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

married. We are waiting to have sex till we are married.. However, we havent decided on a birth control.. The pill, the patch, and the depo shot all seem to have many side effects, including loss of labido and gaining weight... I really would rather not wear a condom.... personal experience with birth control of all kinds would be very welcome!!

2007-01-18 19:01:17 · 3 answers · asked by caleb d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A Woman When They Hear She Is Apart of The F word, and I'm Not Talking About The Arts of Pleasure, I'm Talking About Feminism, Does It Make Some Men Feel Intimidated,or What?

2007-01-18 19:00:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 19:00:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me:Now since we met each other, whats gonna happen now?are we gonna be together or what?
him:idk we gotta talk get 2 know echouther lil betta babe sorry i neva got that money 4 cut so i i stayed at my momz
me:you still coming to see me 2morrow
him:yes sir

2007-01-18 18:59:27 · 4 answers · asked by yeahkid 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 18:57:24 · 5 answers · asked by luciousbbwkitty 2 in Singles & Dating

Had a love affair. Man told me he was going to leave his wife, it was taking too long so I broke it off with him. He has not even called to check on me in 2 days. He was in love with me and didnt have the balls to deal with it. How do I make him feel my pain without making a scene?

2007-01-18 18:56:54 · 19 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dateing for 2 months and he asks me alot of questions about my past or if any of the guys I have talked to. I have slept with. I am honest and tell him. He asked who was on my messanger lists and I told him. 3 people that I had either had a relationship with or had slept with were on there. He told me how he felt and I understood where he was comeing from so I said I would take them off and not talk to them anymore. I contacted one of them after we had talked about this on the same day to let him know I could not talk to him anymore. He wrote and told me his youngest daughter is dealing with her cancer, so being the caring person that I am I told him I would be there for support. But I did not want to go behind my boyfriends back. I do not need that person in my life or any other man but him. The guy I am with means the world to me. If you have ever heard of the term. Finding a good man is like looking for a needle in a hay stack. I found him, not giving him back.

2007-01-18 18:56:51 · 14 answers · asked by lost angel 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey. i need a little help finding a few of my old friends from mississippi. All i need is a few phone numbers... Check your local Whitepages please...

>Cassie, Gayle, and Deborah Kovach.
>Aaron Ammon.
>Morgan Freeman (a girl, and she's white)

Just answer with the Numzz. thanx.
If you find any other "Kovach", put that up too.

Peace.

2007-01-18 18:56:24 · 1 answers · asked by Moe A 2 in Friends

I'll be 26 years in 4 months, I work and they still tell me what do do, where & when to come home, etc. I know I stay under their roof and I ought to respect them, especially as I'm not done with school yet and they pay for my fees. But when I do anything contrary to their thoughts or decisions I'm disobedient & stuborn. They complain when I come home late which is not even everyday, and is usually 9pm at most! Yesterday I was home by 8pm and my mom knows I was from my BF's place, and she says he wont respect me cause we see everyday, I'm ruining myself and all that, is that true? They treat me like I'm still a child! I can't even sit comfortably in the house with my BF so I'd rather stay at his place to rest. Already they've made some decisions for me and they didnt work... and other times I unconsciously went in the opposite direction & did the wrong things . How can I let them know that I love them but I'd like to do some things on my own and make my own decision sometimes?

2007-01-18 18:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by blueheartz 2 in Family

What has caused this strange attraction in so many women for men who treat them terribly? Why that when a man tries to truly care and puts himself out there they push us away? I would rather know who you are and what you really want, then to sleep with you thirty seconds after meeting. Why has chivalry become so how suspect. Have the women of the world been so hurt that they can't find any trust in the male gender. Please give me your honest thoughts. Thanks.

2007-01-18 18:54:39 · 12 answers · asked by michael b 2 in Singles & Dating

I began a new job two weeks ago. My office has two large desks in a medium sized room. I share my space with a nice woman who is my age. We are both in our thirties.

How do I handle my crush on her?

2007-01-18 18:54:27 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

I need some help with girl prob and some life probs. I dont know why im
> writing to u even if i dont know u, but hope u can help me. I've been
> confused for over 6 months now or maybe longer.
> First, I liked this girl for over a year or more. Well like the situation
> in the site, she is 1 year older than me. And im currently in Form 4 now,
> which means she is sitting for her SPM ( malaysian Exam) this year. Well let
> me start the whole thing off. We started to know each other in January. We
> spent alot of time together, though most of it was with other ppl. In Feb,
> during valentines, she gave me a gift. Well myself, i dont really get
> involved in love life at this age. But she changed me ( even b4 the
> gift). I didnt do anything that time as i wasnt sure if my feelings for her
> is real. So i just left it and we became really close frens.We chatted on9
> for hours and hours.Then maybe cause i didnt give her something for
> valentines, she was kinda close this other guy as i see it, they were
> together as when we talked on9, she kept mentioning his name. Well at that
> time, i thought i shud just backoff from relationships, so i started
> avoiding her.But my feelings were still there for her.1 time, i even walked
> her home and we had fun time together alone. She even gave me a
> nickname....a cute 1. We cared for each other alot.And in skool, though we
> are not in the same class, i know she always keep an eye for me......SHE
> STARES AT ME WHEN I ACT I DONT KNOW SHE IS LOOKING....she even told me i
> have a specialy place in her heart.....
> Thats when the other probs came in. First for my exams, I didnt do very
> well, i did only maybe fairly well( not the normal me). I got like 12th in
> class. Then there was this really long period of time were i didnt talk to
> her for the reason i thought she was with some1 else.well it kinda hurts
> when she mentions guys name in front of me. I dont know why......During that
> time aswell, i experienced a downfall. I was elected as head prefect in my
> school. I shud had been happy but i heard many rumours stating i was second
> choice or thihngs like i dont deserve it. Well i was really depressed and i
> still am. This election thing happened in july.
> In August, I think its been 2 months since i made any contact with the
> girl. I decided i cant go on thinking bout her anymore as it affected my
> studies badly. So 1 day, I asked her out telling her i want to sort things
> out with her. She agreed. That time, I finally told her everything, the
> misunderstandings( why i avoided her.....she knew i avoided her ), and i
> even told her i like her. I dont know why but when we met up she was afraid
> to let her dad see us together. She said she did like me but not now. I said
> its ok......Later on9 on the same day, i talked to her. I asked her what she
> feels about me now.She said im her close and good fren but im diff from
> other ppl as i have a special place in her heart. Then she said that place
> was empty when i avoided her. She also said that i was in that place since
> we met as in got close. I dont know if all that she said was true or was it
> just to make me feel better? Oh, i forgot, her reason was that we both have
> the same principles, thats why we wont further our relationship. Our
> principles are not starting relationships when we are in schooling.Well it
> was true, i did say that a lnog time ago and she remembered it.
> Since that day, I tried to get her off my mind. But the way she treats
> me, is totally diff from how she treats other ppl ( treats me like im her
> boyfren). Thats why im confused.But few days before christmas, i asked her
> out as she was leaving else where. She said she was busy with christmas and
> will contact me later. But she still hasnt. Im wondering if she also feels
> the pain to leave here.I really hope u can help me solve these 2 problems...

2007-01-18 18:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont wana hurt anyone

2007-01-18 18:52:05 · 19 answers · asked by wEnNy 3 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking about joining the Navy, I have been thinking about it for four years now, I am 19. My parents talked me out of it when I was 17. Now I feel like I am in a dead end job with no future, I still want to join the Navy, but I dont want my parents to be woried about me for the four year enlistment. I also dont want my friends to feel like I am leaving them. I dont know if I should do want I want and join, or do what every one else would like me to do. Be safe and stay in a dead end factory.

2007-01-18 18:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by buck cherry 2 in Friends

Hey. i need a little help finding a few of my old friends from mississippi. All i need is a few phone numbers... Check your local Whitepages please...

>Cassie, Gayle, and Deborah Kovach.
>Aaron Ammon.
>Morgan Freeman (a girl, and she's white)

Just answer with the Numzz. thanx.
If you find any other "Kovach", put that up too.

Peace.

2007-01-18 18:51:16 · 1 answers · asked by Moe A 2 in Friends

Women who are assertive and somewhat have dominant characteristics and arent afraid of making decsions and speaking their mind...is this a turnoff for most ladies? Im a nice, shy guy so I hate being in control all the time.

2007-01-18 18:50:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why???

2007-01-18 18:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 18:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by Thomas G 2 in Singles & Dating

i love a person who think that i,m not verry good from him,and tell me everyday ''you're a child".Ilove him verry much and i wanna be whit him!

2007-01-18 18:49:12 · 3 answers · asked by Andrada A 1 in Singles & Dating