Why???
2007-01-18 18:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get off your high horse
u dont make sense
but yet you make all the sense
thx
2007-01-18 20:02:23 · update #1
Hey Kel...Just tested the theory and I'm 100% with ya
STILL CLUELESS.......DA DA DA..... DA DA DA.......
Comes down to life's outcomes have no human control - which in a word .....SUCKS!!!
2007-01-18 22:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by renclrk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same with me.
What's REALLY happening is:
When you try hard, you have high expectations for the results. And you tend to overthink things and stress yourself out. So, no matter what, it will never seem like it turned out right.
BUT when you aren't trying, that basically means you don't care. So you aren't stressing yourself out, and things surprise you when they do work out well. (which also makes you remember those times more)
I'm trying to remember not to get so uptight, or care so much about stuff, so it will turn out better! :) Especially relationships!!! If you think too much it can definately sabatoge everything!
2007-01-18 20:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Murphys Law? That sucks, does'nt it.
We always get taught that quitters never win and winners never quit. So we persevere even when the chips are down and everything is stacked against us.
Yet when you get the "prize" you do not really want it anymore or it was not as great as you once thought it might be.
That sucks, doesnt it?
I think we have all been there. Sorry sweetie. All we can do is sit beside you and agree that yeah- it sure is unfair.
2007-01-18 18:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
weak ... but it may be true for u because you havent given the chance this time... Look people aren't like drugs u can try now and there always gonna be there. I can use and use for five yrs quite for two and start like I missed nothing .. You are not I have lost my smile and changed into someone very determined and like it now if I could smile ... she has had it in her jerk box for a yr and I dont plan on f ing up not once.
2007-01-18 19:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you try too hard, it is not you but when you are yourself the outcome is good because it is so you and comes out natural and therefore the result are always good.
2007-01-18 18:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by trykindness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People can tell when you are trying. It radiates. Also, when you don't care, the same things probably happen, but you don't feel it because you don't care. When you're trying, the smallest of failures bother you becaused you are focused on them.
2007-01-18 19:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by FREEROB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just summarized my love life
2007-01-18 19:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by grace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
beats me.. but i totally feel you on this one..
2007-01-18 18:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by unsure24 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋