Women who are assertive and somewhat have dominant characteristics and arent afraid of making decsions and speaking their mind...is this a turnoff for most ladies? Im a nice, shy guy so I hate being in control all the time.
2007-01-18 18:50:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All the guys I know like me to tie them up and whip them, so I'll say no.
2007-01-18 18:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say generally yes, but the aggressive / assertive woman, I think make more money. So you win out on the financial side.
Plus two assertive / aggressive people usually don't work, so if you are that shy guy, you actually have a market for yourself. So find yourself a strong aggressive woman, and you both will be happy.
2007-01-18 18:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by wknightf3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some business women types like the quiet shy guy. But be forewarned, most of the unenlightened people you meet if you do this relationship will ridicule you behind your back. However, I have seen it work.
What happens is that you will need to take the passive, more feminine social role. Giving backrubs, etc etc. It comes of that you will play the role of like a take care of her after her hard days' work type. It can work though. Rarely, I think, but it can.
Depends on you, and the specific lady. Good luck.
2007-01-18 18:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it wouldn't be a turnoff to an aggressive/assertive woman.
2007-01-18 18:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by FREEROB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 10:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by serpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. some girls like that. some girls like to be in control and tell their man what to do. u dont want to be too shy tho cuz then she will think that she can just boss u around. dont always let her wear the pants in the relationship
2007-01-18 18:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by babyblues452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like it when the guy is aggressive, especially when giving head or sumthing. I want to feel like he's in control and I'm just there to please him, thats just me tho.
2007-01-18 18:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all !!!!!
2007-01-18 18:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by ani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋