Had a love affair. Man told me he was going to leave his wife, it was taking too long so I broke it off with him. He has not even called to check on me in 2 days. He was in love with me and didnt have the balls to deal with it. How do I make him feel my pain without making a scene?
2007-01-18 18:56:54 · 19 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you know any friends of his? Close friends? If they don't know about you, get your claws into him babe - imagine a dinner with you & your new man along with your exlover and his wife - that's GOTTA hurt.
2007-01-18 18:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own man, be happy with him, and have a long peaceful existence. Maybe he'll get jealous? Revenge probably won't make you feel anybody and here's why.
You tried to steal another woman's husband. So now you want to bring more chaos into her life? Be happy it didn't end up worse for you. You might've ended up getting the guy. You think shacking up with an adulter would be a good thing? Get some counseling and get over it.
2007-01-18 19:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by no mas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you feel you need to make him pay? he will be paying with all the bull**** he brought into his marriage with his wife and family...think about her shes probably going through enough with him...if i was you i would move one and forget him theres always someone better for you out there, don't sell yourself too low...he's a lier and will always be one, so why would you settle for a liar with a family to deal with?... don't worry he will eventually get his in the end either heart broken and alone for good or something else it always comes back one way or another. I say move on find someone better (without a wife and family) you will be much happier to know that hes all yours and only yours and no one elses.
2007-01-19 17:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sweetheart. He is not worth the gum on the bottom of your shoe. And for future reference, stay away from other peoples' property. Do you really want to start a relationship that involves the end of someone else's? There are too many better options for you. You are worthy of a good man!
2007-01-18 19:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You grow up and find a single person and stop messing with other peoples' marriages. Do you really want a guy who would just jump up and say he's gonna leave his wife? What do you think would happen? He'd probably do the same to you when he finds someone more interesting.
2007-01-18 19:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by FREEROB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living well is the best revenge.Case in point , I had an ugly divorce from my first wife, now I'm remarried with a beautiful,kind loving wife(who happens to be 14 years younger than my ex)and we bang all the time!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-18 19:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he wasn't in love with you. You had an affair with a married man...You have no right to make anyone feel pain...You brought all of your pain on yourself.
2007-01-18 19:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel your pain? You were with a married guy. His wife has the damn pain of betrayal, at yours and his hands.
Wake up, move on, and get over your self. Find someone that's really available.
2007-01-18 19:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only tormenting yourself. He can make you seem like a stalker. Since he's married anyway, he's not worth the effort. Find another partner because this man was just using you.
2007-01-18 19:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋