i dont wana hurt anyone
2007-01-18 18:52:05 · 19 answers · asked by wEnNy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be open honest and polite. As you just said it, "I dont want to hurt you, I dont hurt anyone BUT:"
2007-01-18 18:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by cowboygene2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no ways that you can do it without hurting him.
Using nice words is the best that you can do.
Do not say anything STUPID like "I just like you as a friend." or "We can still be friends." Men hate that more than anything else in the world. Just tell him that you don't want a relationship with anyone.
2007-01-19 03:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him that you just see him as a friend and you just don't feel the same. Tell him he is a nice guy and bring his self-esteem up and say that there will be someone else who likes him for who he is. (Kinda even out the "rejection.") You just don't feel the same way.
2007-01-19 02:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he's got bad breath and that u remind of that of that perverted uncle who always hits on u all the time. Works like a charm.
2007-01-19 02:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be direct and quick about it, and as soon as possible. Just tell him that you would rather not commit yourself to a relationship with any one. If he asks "Why?" Just tell him that you aren't ready and leave it at that. If he continues, tell him it's not your intention to get personal with him, and you don't want to hurt his feelings, but it's your decision and that you're going to stick with it.
2007-01-19 02:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no nice way of saying that, but I guess just give him an indirect excuse. Like Sorry, i m not into dating at the moment.. somthing like that..
2007-01-19 02:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be nice you have to lie. You can tell him you're dating someone else.
It will never sound nice to honestly tell people you don't feel the same. Truth hurts, you know.
2007-01-19 03:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is being honest. Don't use the one line reason eg i juat want to be friends. Try if you can to explain but be aware of his feelings
2007-01-19 02:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Ehlana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't a nice way. He's going to get hurt
because you don't have the same feelings for him.
Just say that you value your friendship and you don't want
anything to change it.
2007-01-19 02:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, most likely he will be a little hurt but he will get over it
2007-01-19 02:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by just_missp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋