2007-01-18 19:15:21 · 16 answers · asked by bashfullyblessed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know he is cheating dont bother trying to catch him. Just dump him!!!!!!
2007-01-18 19:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't assume it/accuse them, it can drive them to do it if you are insecure and badger them enough.
if a friend came to me and i had some spare time, I would try to help catch them or prove the innocence, whatever the truth is.
you need higher self-esteem. he probably isn't as smart as you think they are.
if they are, they will eventually slip, either by carelessness or by a mistake.
I had thought it with one of my ex's, but she backed into a mail truck on our 3 yr anniversary at the other guys house, she was there dealing with the police when I got off of work, she wasn't at home, a friend had told me he saw her car there a lot, i drove by, there she was, and then it was over.
you would probably be best to leave him if you are quite certain than go through actually catching him, it will hurt more (unless you are sure you are just being paranoid and love him very much).
2007-01-19 03:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by just another guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to catch any of his bad behavior. You just tell him right to his face. You do not need any evident or proof since You owe him nothing. He violated your trust and respect. Then move on and I urge you to be firm and strong. You do not need to be around this type of behavior. Please do not hook up with him again. There are so many fish in the sea and I am sure you will find a good person who loves you and respect you as the way you are.
2007-01-19 03:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny. You know they are "outsmartting/outwitting" you, and you can't recgonize what it is they are doing?
So how do you know that they are outsmarting you then?
1. You know what yo have to do and go out and catch him in the act.
or
2. You are a totally paranoid girl who need to take a step back from the ledge of suspicion and the fall of your sanity.
2007-01-19 03:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to "catch" him?
If you are that nervous about it, perhaps you should end the relationship without "catching" him...it's not a game, and you don't need an excuse to end a relationship if you're not happy in it, or it causes you undue stress.
Just end it.
2007-01-19 03:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out smart him! Dump the guy. He's not worth your effort or worth getting hurt over. You deserve better. Always remember that.
2007-01-19 03:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell it to him straight!!!! tell him that you want the truth.... but firstly do u definitely know he is cheating? dont accuse him if your not sure have concrete evidence!!!! Goodluck also depending on how much u wnat to kno maybe you could spy on him or get a friend to! i kno its absurd but if you really want to know the truth and hes not giving it to you....
You have these opitions
1. dont worry about it just let it blow over
2. tell him if hes not going to tell you the truth threaten him with breaking up hes not worth ur time if hes goin to lie and to ur face especially.
3. hire a spy!!
2007-01-19 03:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by sam g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and get a dumber boyfriend -- or just become content with the fact that men are cheating lying losers with one thing on their mind. but you need us still or you woudlnt' be able to have kids.
2007-01-19 03:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is cheating you don't have to prove it, just leave.
2007-01-19 03:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any question about him being faithful, you have your answer!
Stop wasting your time and Leave
2007-01-19 03:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by IAMGODD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋