my ex and i have been broken up for 10 months recently he has been calling me everyday at work sometimes 2 times a day and then i asked him if he wanted to go to the movies and then he kept making excuses. i told him i dont have time for a phone relationship and i havent heard from him for a week. he left me and i still love him. why is he calling all the time then? why is he doing this? he is getting jelous and asking where i have been who im with and what i have been doing. what is with this?? should i send him an sms and tell him i miss him?
2007-01-18 19:02:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi,Just cool down a bit.It seems Love is still in the air from both ends.Why dont you call him and have a face to face talk,telling him its something serious in live that you have to discuss with him.Then when you meet him personally,come to the point,and tell him........that you still feel the same for him and would like to get into a relationship.
2007-01-18 19:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dream Seller 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like a control issue. He left you and has probably been playing the field and talking to other women. Yet he still wants to control you by keeping you hanging on. He wants you to still be at his beck-n-call and not see anyone else, but chances are he isn't saving himself for just you. He sounds like a lot of men that I have known. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to still control you and make you believe that he just wants you and he doesn't want you to move on, but when he isn't talking to you he is talking to someone else. Of course, I really hope this isn't the case for you, but don't be a fool. He probably accuses you of cheating and makes you feel he doesn't trust you. This is because he knows he has been cheating so if he directs the attention on you then maybe you wont find out what he has been doing. If he really loves you and wants to be back with you then he will have to trust you and not get jealous. If he really truly loves you and respects you he will not badger you with 20 questions about where, what, when and with who. If he is being sincere then he will be nice, and want to see you, and ask how you have been. Try to see through him and what his real intentions are. Good luck.
2007-01-19 03:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically what it sounds like is he is just keeping tabs so that if he decides he wants you back he knows you are there. I would say not to answer anymore. I understand you love him and all but he is only calling to check up on you. I would just cut off communication otherwise if you get back with him, he is just going to feel he can control you and you will have no life without his approval.
2007-01-19 03:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by dagreat21 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sarah, unfortunately I think your ex wants to still know your business but have his freedom still... you know the saying have the cake and eat it too... I think you should ask him to stop calling. Say you want to be friends but need some space... Maybe if you have a breather from him he could realise he still cares or it will give you time to move on... Good luck with it all
2007-01-19 03:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ehlana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. He just wants to make sure you're not with anybody.
Not because he loves you, but because he's juvenile.
If you do tell him that you're seeing someone, he'll probably interrogate
you and make you say EVERYTHING about this guy and he'll probably
eventually convince you to stop seeing him.
Just ignore the guy. Tell him you have more important things to do
than to hang on to the past.
2007-01-19 03:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I saw above difficulties faced by you.you must advice your lover and tell him to
not do this again.you can send also sms.
2007-01-19 03:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by prassana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him to keep calling you, don't email him. It sounds like he's spying on you, not trying to get back together.
2007-01-19 03:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on darling. he is not worth it. if he wants to play games, he should go to the mcdonalds playground. you are too good for him
2007-01-19 03:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if that is really how you feel about him, yes
2007-01-19 03:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by mickbell77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you calll him
2007-01-19 04:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by clear_only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋