Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

I have been dating this man for about a year now. I love him very much and I always will. Our relationship is still coming along but for some reason when I tell him I love him he tells me "you don't love me the way I love you". I tell him I love him every day. I even try to show him that I love him but I still recieve the same answer. what you think I should do? Every day he hold me at night and say "I will never leave you " but he pushes me away because he thinks I don't love him. I love him daily. I'm really confused.

2007-01-18 18:48:11 · 9 answers · asked by latisha m 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 and i'm married, I really love my hubby and same is from his side. Till now everything was ok. But 4days bak i posted a question in thijs site and a guy get bak to me saying don't worry, i'm there..tell wat u wanna say? I told him i'm ok, it was just a question..like this we start talking and now he liked me so much. He keep on telling me that i'm good but yes never misbehaved. I told it to mu hubby also, but my hubby told me that there is nothing wrong in talking to somebody else on net but just never ever give him ur no. or address. But now i can't stop myself for thinking about him. I feel like chatting with him everytime. Now, i'm feeling guilty for this feeling. I don't want to talk to this guy but i'm not able to leave him either i'm not able to tell it to my hubby too. He will misunderstand me may be.. Plz..help me....

2007-01-18 18:48:01 · 8 answers · asked by sanna 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 18:46:38 · 12 answers · asked by nadih_18 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 44, separated, flame is little older never married but lives with someone. Is it OK to try to get flame re ignited????

2007-01-18 18:45:45 · 6 answers · asked by Fred 3 in Singles & Dating

guys a question for you. If a chick you are attracted to plays hard to get and teases you, does that make you want her more?

2007-01-18 18:43:49 · 17 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Singles & Dating

can bipolar cause a spouse to hurt you im not with my husband now but when i was he had mood swings and he seemed like two different people like some one evil at time's then nice other time's i couldn't understand his behaver plus he was a alcoholic thank god im not with him and he's not abusing me now

2007-01-18 18:42:17 · 9 answers · asked by sweetgranny06 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 18:41:26 · 7 answers · asked by lynn_k_m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my husband have been maried for over a 2 years and we have 2 children together my husband loves me alot but stares at other women a lot too. i want to now what could me the reason for this and would he ever cheat on me or cheated on me

2007-01-18 18:41:21 · 22 answers · asked by sonia g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the coxin on the all boys rowing team @ my college. I'm a freshmen girl and I adore my sport with a passion and I love the guys on my team like brothers.After I have been with them for such a long time they treat me like another boy, and they give me a harder time because i'm the only girl. In the past I have kissed 2 boys when I wasn't on the team.I hear about it about everyday and I havn't kissed anyone in about 4 months. they also runion any time a guy approches me and scare them off

They will lock me out fo the ergg room in the cold for about 10 mins cause they think it's funny I don'tknwo the code.They burst in my room at 3 in the morning drunk and wake me and my hallway up

If they don't treat me with more respect when we get back on the water in spring things won't go as smoothly

recently the onther coxin said they said they don't want to be in my boat as a joke but that comment hurts me

How do I get respect on my team back and treated like a sister over a brother

2007-01-18 18:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Friends

Since I'm having my baby in March, I'm suppose to be moving on. How come I can't stop repeating over and over to myself, why did this happen to me?? What did I do wrong? How can he be moved on soo quickly?

2007-01-18 18:37:52 · 7 answers · asked by mommy2be031207 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not a home wrecker. After being good for so long and being in a very toxic ldr relationship. I was very lonely and fustrated. This guy at work who is 4 years younger than me. He and I would exchange sexual glances at each other and it turned me on so much. Even though I knew he lived with a girl and had kid's. I have never done this before in my life and I'll be the first to admit it was wrong. I invited him to have sex with me. He said he would get back to me on it. Couple night's later I asked what did he decided? He agreed to that morning. As we were leaving he seemed skeptical and nervous. So I asked him to walk me to my car and he was trembling I put my hands in his pocket and pulled him close, kissed him gently on the neck, He was trembling and said he had to go. He gave me the most intense hug ever He asked for my e-mail, and number.I e-mailed him 3x's. He never responded and his girl seen the e-mail called me know he has changed his e-mail address. Was he interested or not?

2007-01-18 18:37:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best firend is a guy i`v met almost a year ago. he has been there for me in my worse and best days. he is extremly helpful, caring, loving and relaxing. he saw me in my worse shapes and not yet in my greatest shapes. he always seeks my comfort and abandens his male friends to hang out with me. its. he found that he loves me few months ago. shall i marry him or just go on with my life? ( p.s: i`m not searching, it just happend he said that he loves me 4 months ago).
i`m not certain i have love feeling to him, all i get is butterflys in my stomach when i find an SMS or Missed call from him. i`m used to him being around every minute i ask for. I never tried to live wothout him, i spend most of the time with him, wether on phone or hanging out, we know each other very well, his hugs feel good. i love him sooooo much but as my best friend, can i use the same love for love? or is it enough love for both friendship and marrige?

2007-01-18 18:37:24 · 14 answers · asked by confused lover 2 in Singles & Dating

gentlemen please or the men who do these things and if you do why?

2007-01-18 18:37:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm one of the very few i've seen i don't mean dark tan ,i mean cocoa kind of color, very few people know i'm even mixed because of my dark complextion the only thing that really seems to point it out is my voice accent ,it's really strange like a liverpudlian accent mixed with a southern drawl i can't help it ,though. my father is from liverpool and my mother is from the deep south part of texas. i haven't met them i only know who they are, i was put up for adoption in 1992 .It would be so cool just to meet one person that was mixed ,but dark too. Have you guys seen anyone like so? I'd truely love to know,Srtl

2007-01-18 18:37:00 · 4 answers · asked by shanikqua t 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 18:34:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 18:33:10 · 30 answers · asked by Raj Narayan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 18:33:02 · 10 answers · asked by lynn_k_m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

providing he got help and was sorry? has anyone been there and done that? did it work or backfire? i realize noone has a right to touch another person ever!!! i wonder how the mind of abuser thinks? or do they? which is worse physical verses emotional?

2007-01-18 18:33:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

busy getting bags and buy car parking ticket, she was just checking my mobile, especailly first day of arriving in airport, she could check it later. I was wondering isnt right thing to do and she asking too many questions after I was talking on this girl as friend and so many sms in 24hrs. she trust me after two years we know each other way i trust her.

2007-01-18 18:31:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am i a bad mother for letting my son cry in his exgersaucer for 10-15 minutes because i didnt had patients at 12:30 in the morning, after only having 15 minutes of sleep and was afraid i might drop him or hurt him. my fiance says im a mean creul mother

2007-01-18 18:31:12 · 18 answers · asked by miraclebaby_2006 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 18:30:40 · 12 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I split up bout a month ago, we were together almost 2 yrs and were best friends. A couple of weeks after the split he claimed he was already over it and moving on, not with anyone else jus that he was fine, then the other day he says hes not fine and that he still cant c how he could grow to love someone as much as me. Is he really over us and jus sayin that or is he not over us? I find it hard to believe he could be over us when we were together that long and he cried when we split. There is a remote chance of us bein together in the future, he is adamant he never goes back but says anythin is possible...

2007-01-18 18:29:41 · 7 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Singles & Dating

Well, I don't think this guy has ever met a virgin before who was my age, and he is really pressuring me into sex. Sometimes, I think he is testing me to see if I will go all the way, but I refuse him.. Now, he won't speak to me.. what do I do? I did not say it in a mean way, but if someone is pressuring you, you have to be kind of firm with your answer.. right? Btw, I am 19, and I know that being this age and virginal is unheard of, but why is he doing this to me?

2007-01-18 18:29:25 · 7 answers · asked by maria t 1 in Singles & Dating

Which one do you think is more preferable?

2007-01-18 18:29:20 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

well if u need so descriptions of him hes really nice says the cutest things he loves to cuddle. he calls me his baby boy. but i want an orignal name for him. he love to spend lots of time with me. and ugh i think that all but let me know if u need to knw anything else. k? thanx!

2007-01-18 18:29:01 · 4 answers · asked by Michael_15 1 in Singles & Dating

could he tell you were suprised?

2007-01-18 18:29:01 · 4 answers · asked by meagen k 1 in Singles & Dating

ive heard that for a guy to fall deeply in love with a girl, he is more likely to do this after he has shagged her. do you think thats true? I dont.

2007-01-18 18:28:27 · 13 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Singles & Dating

Oh I feel like im going nuts......I met this really great guy. He is wonderful to me and has everything going for him. he's 34, im 30
We have talked a total of 20 hours over the last month and have great chemistry together. He even asks if i want to have kids for certain cause he does pretty soon.
Problem is I found out he was supposed to be married last July.
He called off the wedding 3 weeks before walking down the aisle.
I had to drag this out of him. He didnt offer up that he had bene engaged on his own.
He says he loved her and wanted to be with her but couldnt see himself spending the rest of his life with her. What does that mean ?
She sounds like a very nice person so I dont understand.
Should I be afraid to date him ? Im fearful that Ill worry that he fickle and run from me eventually too.

What should I do ?

2007-01-18 18:27:18 · 5 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Singles & Dating

this boyfriend claimed he loved me but seems to only be interested in him,him,him!! we or better yet i can be talking on a level basis and he does not respond to the question. he changes it to something totally different and does not consider what the original question is. he also has a reason why he is always to tired for love. no he is not cheating and its not the main issue in our life. but he has more excuses than a woman. headache,backache,tired ect,ect. i never had to ask for love before? its on his terms regarding love. i heard him tell his mom i was the best sex he ever had but he could have fooled me as he did not know i heard. he started a heating and air conditioning job and i understand he is tired. what about a working nurse? 12 hr shifts and then comes home to clean up after his mom and him? he has had a past pattern im now aware of with live in ladies /woman i feel like another #. excuses y he cant help out financially lil things? im no gld digger! i feel used.no dates?

2007-01-18 18:25:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 18:25:16 · 6 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating