I'm 25 and i'm married, I really love my hubby and same is from his side. Till now everything was ok. But 4days bak i posted a question in thijs site and a guy get bak to me saying don't worry, i'm there..tell wat u wanna say? I told him i'm ok, it was just a question..like this we start talking and now he liked me so much. He keep on telling me that i'm good but yes never misbehaved. I told it to mu hubby also, but my hubby told me that there is nothing wrong in talking to somebody else on net but just never ever give him ur no. or address. But now i can't stop myself for thinking about him. I feel like chatting with him everytime. Now, i'm feeling guilty for this feeling. I don't want to talk to this guy but i'm not able to leave him either i'm not able to tell it to my hubby too. He will misunderstand me may be.. Plz..help me....
2007-01-18 18:48:01 · 8 answers · asked by sanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your hubby gave you the trust so you should embrace it that he allowed you to converse on the net....just don't break that trust. Obviously your hubby is a good man to give you some freedom for yourself. Not many men are that understanding. You have to put your piorities straight.....if you want to enjoy the freedom and trust that your hubby had given you, don't take advantage of it....draw the line between yourself and whoever or the net. You should not let your feelings go astray. If you can't control your feelings towards this guy then stop chatting with him........you don't have to feel guilty for feeling the way you do....if nothing happened. Sometimes people get a little out of hand when it comes to feelings....as long as you didn't really do something bad, like meet him or something....break it off with the guy and don't tell your hubby anything....he might get hurt and not trust you again...... make other friends on the net....take this as a lesson learnt and don't let this kind of things happen again....good luck
2007-01-18 19:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must remember that you are talking to a stranger. Are you willing to trade your husband for a man you don't even know? Not only that, you are not nearly as anomynous as you think. Experts can find you and what if he is a nut. Anyone can say anything they want on a message board, but is that really the kind of person he is, or just wants to portray that image. Your playing a dangerous game in more ways than one.
2007-01-18 18:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by smcdevitt2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If "this guy" has that kind of effect on you, STOP! You can and you must! Second get a good marriage counselor and find out what you are missing from your hubby.
2007-01-18 18:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Roll_Tide! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go spend time w/ ur hubby, leave this guy alone. He's out there just trying to get lucky, so dont start anything unless u want to end your marriage..
2007-01-18 18:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rain L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In life, at times you have to take tough decisions. You have to be strong & stop communicating with this person if you love your hubby so much!!!
2007-01-18 18:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Vik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you need to try it harder... if you don't want your hubby to be misunderstood.. I think you better use your time to be with your hubby..so you will forget to chatting with him...good luck
2007-01-18 19:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this site is for fun and entertainment and u shouldn't be getting that emotional from a Q & A site. Behave and love u'r honey.
2007-01-18 19:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married and committing emotional adultery with another man. Quit it.
2007-01-18 18:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by John D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋