this boyfriend claimed he loved me but seems to only be interested in him,him,him!! we or better yet i can be talking on a level basis and he does not respond to the question. he changes it to something totally different and does not consider what the original question is. he also has a reason why he is always to tired for love. no he is not cheating and its not the main issue in our life. but he has more excuses than a woman. headache,backache,tired ect,ect. i never had to ask for love before? its on his terms regarding love. i heard him tell his mom i was the best sex he ever had but he could have fooled me as he did not know i heard. he started a heating and air conditioning job and i understand he is tired. what about a working nurse? 12 hr shifts and then comes home to clean up after his mom and him? he has had a past pattern im now aware of with live in ladies /woman i feel like another #. excuses y he cant help out financially lil things? im no gld digger! i feel used.no dates?
2007-01-18 18:25:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is either a controlling person, or he thinks he loves you, but deep down he is really holding you as a necessity for some reasons.
In a nutshell, he does not love you, and he does not know what the word love really means. Take care!
2007-01-18 18:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Aadel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is in the bad mooth. maybe it from the last relationship, he still feel tired of that even he has u now. if U want to get along with him, U must know U have to bare whatever he is caring
2007-01-18 18:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you,he's using you,and he's cheating!
Just my opinion from limited info.
2007-01-18 19:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by muttbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋