I'm not a home wrecker. After being good for so long and being in a very toxic ldr relationship. I was very lonely and fustrated. This guy at work who is 4 years younger than me. He and I would exchange sexual glances at each other and it turned me on so much. Even though I knew he lived with a girl and had kid's. I have never done this before in my life and I'll be the first to admit it was wrong. I invited him to have sex with me. He said he would get back to me on it. Couple night's later I asked what did he decided? He agreed to that morning. As we were leaving he seemed skeptical and nervous. So I asked him to walk me to my car and he was trembling I put my hands in his pocket and pulled him close, kissed him gently on the neck, He was trembling and said he had to go. He gave me the most intense hug ever He asked for my e-mail, and number.I e-mailed him 3x's. He never responded and his girl seen the e-mail called me know he has changed his e-mail address. Was he interested or not?
2007-01-18 18:37:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1rst off I admited I was wrong and if you read the e-mail correctly. Im not a home wrecker this is the 1rst time I've ever done this meaning I don't make a habit of doing stuff like this. for the person who made the comment about his kids they I would have been long gone way before his kids even knew. He is not completely innocent becaue if he were he would have said no thank you and kept moving. Instead of starting it in the 1rst place. Im not the only women in the world who has done this they weren't married or engaged just living together.
2007-01-19 06:55:03 · update #1
1rst off I admited I was wrong and if you read the e-mail correctly. Im not a home wrecker this is the 1rst time I've ever done this meaning I don't make a habit of doing stuff like this. for the person who made the comment about his kids. I would have been long gone way before his kids even knew. He is not completely innocent becaue if he were he would have said no thank you and kept moving. Instead of starting it in the 1rst place. Im not the only women in the world who has done this they weren't married or engaged just living together.
2007-01-19 06:55:59 · update #2
Honest opinion? Yes, he was interested. Luckily for him he's a really good guy, because it's the good ones who do what is right, not just what feels right.
His kids are lucky to have such a devoted and honest father.
2007-01-18 18:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Theresa A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was free sex. He was interested. You might not want to make a habit out of this behavior. I'm not judging you because I've been a cheater and a home wrecker. Let me tell you, it can be lonely as hell and what goes around comes around. Believe that! In this day and age, it's not safe to play with people's relationship. He's got a family. You wouldn't want someone doing that to your guy no matter how intense their feelings are. Besides, do you really want some other chick's sloppy seconds? If he would've cheated with you, I can guarantee he would've cheated on you. Respect yourself enough not to be that kind of girl. You do deserve a man that is yours and only yours. Don't settle for anything less.
2007-01-18 18:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is engaged in a relationship so you shouldn't expect much. I'm not perfect I've made some mistakes and sleeping with a married man was one of them. I understand where you are coming from. I regret and you are very lucky he walked away but that still doesn't make him Mr. Perfect because he was a victim of flirting with you so you're both wrong.
Anywho, he is very tempted and you're not making it easier. You should not email him anymore. Yes I know you may have feelings for this guy but you have to understand he is in a relationship and has kids.
HE'S NOT DITCHING YOU IT'S JUST HE WANTS TO BE FAITHFUL.
Do you really want to be sloppy seconds? Do you really want a man who is going to cheat on his girl and be with you? If he can do that to a woman he has kids with than you definitely would do it to you. Think of these things before attempting. You can do better, I know its hard but try to forget about him, you're worth more.
P.S. Think of it this way, you wouldn't want no other female ruining your relationship now would you so why should you? (what comes around, goes around).
Good luck!
2007-01-18 18:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Q & A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd definitely say he was interested and you were definitely distracting. I think you scared him though. He felt himself begin to slip into your seductive charms and liked it...but at the same time liked his current way of life. He probably realized he couldnt have his cake and eat it too so thats why he made a quick escape before he did something that he felt could have been a mistake.
2007-01-18 19:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by texaspride1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not a home wrecker, you sure as hell were acting like one.
He made a good decision by pushing you away, and it's in your best interest as well as his to move on.
2007-01-18 18:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by John C 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What the hell do you care if he's attracted or not? Dude has kids grow up, stop being so selfish for your own needs. One day, some kid is gonna be some adult, and they will say, yeah, why were you with my father, when you knew I was around? What will you say?
2007-01-18 18:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was interested but he decided to hold on to what he's got. Obviously he loves his girlfrioend and does not want to spoil things at home. Find your own man and respect other people's relationships.
It was ok to flirt but going beyond was NOT!
2007-01-18 18:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's NOT interested in you! If he was, believe me he would have banged you before you could say your last name! Leave the man alone and look for another one..... there are billions out there jus waiting to sieze such opportunities
2007-01-18 18:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by Curious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was tempted. You were someone who made him want to cheat. Is that a good enough feeling for you, or would you feel better if he hurt his girlfriend or wife by actually being with you?
Which will make you feel right?
2007-01-18 18:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by lynn_k_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dangled a steak in front of a starving dog, of course he was "interested."
Fortunately he ultimately had more sense and morals than you.
2007-01-18 18:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by EQ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋