Well, I don't think this guy has ever met a virgin before who was my age, and he is really pressuring me into sex. Sometimes, I think he is testing me to see if I will go all the way, but I refuse him.. Now, he won't speak to me.. what do I do? I did not say it in a mean way, but if someone is pressuring you, you have to be kind of firm with your answer.. right? Btw, I am 19, and I know that being this age and virginal is unheard of, but why is he doing this to me?
2007-01-18 18:29:25 · 7 answers · asked by maria t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is doing this to you because he is horny and doesn't really like you for who you are.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
Trust me. I had potential boyfriends who asked me if we were going to have sex if we were officially a couple. I told them time and time again.... NO. Maybe that's why they were never my boyfriends to begin with. GOOD. Because no girl deserves someone like that.
You have done the right thing girl. NOT GIVING IN AND LETTING HIM KNOW. It's HIS loss. He's acting very immature. But then again, he's a teenage boy... with raging hormones (I think that's being redundant). You deserve someone who respects your decision and really does love you. God will bring that right guy to you.
2007-01-18 18:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is fcuking with your mind so you'll give in and he'll get what he wants. Don't fall for it-who cares that you had to be firm to him-he obviously doesn't care; nor does he care about respecting you. He just wants a POA-piece of as s. The man is a pig. I am a virgin too. I am 19 as well. If someone tried pressuring me like that-then I would know that they don't care about my feelings and are only in ti to get some-but I'm not naive..so they wouldn't win-I would put that as shole; that pig in his place.
2007-01-18 18:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like this guy is not into you. If he was then he would wait til you are ready. He is not respecting you. A guy who is into you would respect your choice and wait until you're ready even if it takes months, years. he should wait. But your b/f not speaking to you is ridiculous. he just wants to hit it & quit it. Forget the loser! You're doing good, don't be pressured!
P.S. When you get into a relationship, tell the guy ahead of time "I am a virgin and intend to stay that way until I am ready"...that way he will know what he is getting into and not expect anything.
Good luck!
2007-01-18 18:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Q & A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello??? leave him! he just want sex.. so he's not worth to get you as his GF!! if u wana have sex, you take the chance n u shud take the risk of being pregnant or being abused,,, how if he leave u after sex? are you ready? juz leave him
2007-01-18 18:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by wEnNy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he see something pure and decent in you and he wants to mess that up,so that ego can huff up
2007-01-18 18:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about him he doesn't respect you
2007-01-18 18:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by jiveybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't speak to him
2007-01-18 18:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋