Ive known her for about 2 years already. When we met we clicked and became best friends and had a relationship that went deeper then anything. We had alot of fun that year, We hung out with each other every weekend and talked on the phone during the week like everyday, we talked about anything and everything and we trusted one another and in due time I started to fall for her. I tried asking her out after are friendship and relationship grew, but she didn't wana be with me. After that awkwardness grew, but we still managed to stay best friends. I took her to my senior prom also ending that year for me and I figured good things might happen, but she found a guy she dated that summer and it broke my heart. After that I did not talk to her or see her in a year because the site of me always made her depressed and I didnt know why. We got into a fight this past december seeing each other for the first time in a year and she broke down infront of me. I dont know what she might feel inside.
2007-01-18 17:40:21 · 5 answers · asked by jckhammer2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I honestly believe she has feelings for you. If she can break down in front of you then that means there are feelings there remaining. Because if she did not have feelings for you it wouldn't have made her cry. It also seems like you're very in love indeed. Since you did ask her out before and she rejected doesn't necessarily mean she’s not into you. Perhaps at that specific time she wasn't ready for a relationship. I think she is in loved but afraid of commitment. Who knows maybe she thinks of you all the time as well. Love is a hard thing to get over and honestly I don't think one can ever get over someone you once loved even if you moved on because if you see that person again emotions will eventually build up again.
What I would suggest you do is contact her -phone-email. But I prefer phone and speak your mind. I don't mean cry and beg because no ones worth begging. You should start off by saying "Hello, how are you”..."it's been a while hasn't it?"...Wow, can't believe the years flew by this fast"... so what have you been up to?"... THEN you work your way up by venting your feelings. Like, (does not have to be in exact words but somewhat like that) "I miss you so much its ridiculous, seems I can’t get you out of my mind".... see what she says from there and if she does not reply with "I miss you too" or "Yes, I feel the same way"...then I don't think she is in love. But if she shows some interest over the phone then tell her "we should get together for lunch"...and if she 's too busy and does not at least say “maybe some other time” or at least give a day to hang out then again, she's not interested.
Love is very hard to get over...If this does not work out, then don't sweat it...You'll eventually get over her; will take some time but nothing is impossible.
P.S. It’s better to express your feelings then to say to yourself in the future "I should have told her this or that”.....so go for it and vent your feelings to her. If that doesn’t work out then things just weren’t meant to be. Good luck!
2007-01-18 17:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Q & A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by moncalieri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen to me and when I saw him again I felt like he betrayed me, and that he wasn't always gunna be there for me. It hurts because I thought he was always gunna be by myside and would stick around even if I was with someone else. I can't say that its exactly how she's feeling but its probably something like that. I want to know why guys do that though. Why do you stop talking to a girl if you really liked her that much? Wouldn't you still go after her if you really wanted her? I dunno, i hope i helped you a bit though, and hope everything works out fine between you two!
2007-01-18 17:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After she broke off with you,she fell in love with you.But maybe no courage to face you. Do you want her back? if so go get her.Start the relationship again.
2007-01-18 17:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it doesn't seem you two are meant for each other. Please don't waste your life on someone who doesn't apprecaiate you. Take it from someone who knows. It's not worth it. Find someone else.
2007-01-18 17:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋