2007-01-18 17:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, only lust at the first sight.
Love comes later.
2007-01-18 17:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a certain extent yes. You can pick up more than looks from seeing someone, humans divulge a lot about themselves with the actions, facial expressions, posture. I think most people it is lust, which I can tell the difference in myself between the two. In reality I think it is more infatuation with first sight, but love sounds more romantic. My first love it was like this. I didn't want to get in her pants, I wanted to just be near her and the feeling didn't fade. We didn't officially hook up for over a year, and it was still a month after that before we 'did' anything. So it was definately not lust, but an emotional response to the first time I laid my eyes upon her, and even though we are now apart, I will never forget that moment, how she looked, what she was wearing, nor any part of the relationship. I think you get one of those in your life (then you are tainted and it takes more effort to fall for someone).
2007-01-19 02:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by just another guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight it just a cute little romantic saying, to truely love someone, you have to KNOW who they are, and so many other things that you just cant know at first sight. Saying it was love at first sight it really romantic though >.> but in reality, it's just not true.
2007-01-19 01:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately "Yes". Experienced it! "Love at first sight" doesn't mean you have to marry him/her. It's just a feeling that happens at that moment. You might find out he/she is not as charming as the first sight after longer period. Anyway, Love doens't have a timeframe, it is not neccessarily grow consistantly, you might love him/her today, hate him/her tomorrow, applied also to married couples. So, Love at first sight does exist.
2007-01-19 02:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by nycky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because you can always find guys everywhere . Love doesn't matter when you see the person from the first time , and you might never know that person was just having fun of you at all.
It is just a love affection .... thats all ! It doen't exist in this generation.
2007-01-19 02:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by elna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you can have a connection at first site that you have never had with anyone before but true love comes after someone puts up with you not because of who you are but in spite of who you are.
2007-01-19 01:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by krazyhoneygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe in love at first sight.coz it happen to me.but depends on ur faith..if you're meant for each other,it could be the best thing in your whole life..everyone hoping to be experience love at the first sight..why dont you...
2007-01-19 01:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by babyzlurv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell me it doesn't exist bec I experienced it. Lust from a distance, but then when I saw him up close, it was LOVE. I felt stunned; he was a stranger but I truly felt like I had known him all my life. It was the most beautiful and incredible thing that has ever happened to me, the happiest moment of my life, I was blessed to have experienced it.
2007-01-19 01:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Only intrest or lust at first sight. (love comes later....)
2007-01-19 01:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight is real. Because true love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry. Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique!
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight. As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more. Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them? Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I only met once a year ago. I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet. Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with their soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me. The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real! I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should you say that about me?
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe
2007-01-19 21:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋