My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.
2007-01-18 16:58:43 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has LOTS of friends so I know he's not lonely so does he really wanna be friends with someone he use to kiss & cuddle? What does he get out of seeing me every once in awhile? Is he planning on something?
2007-01-18 16:59:10 · update #1
I think that's great that he still wants to talk to you and/or be around you. That's just a sign that he does like you and that he's comfortable around you. He sounds like a great friend and you never know, more could come from it. Just hang in there and whatever happens was meant to be. Ask him for that coffee. Keep in touch with him, there are only a hand full of men like that, and for him to not pressure you into anymore than just cuddles, kisses and hugs is awesome! Good Luck!
2007-01-18 22:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to think that he is hoping that you two can still be more than friends. He may think that he made a mistake in ending this relationship, for whatever reason, and may want a second chance. If it is your intention to only be his friend, you should be straight forward and honest with him about that so he knows what the bounderies are.
2007-01-18 17:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he just break up with somebody?I did that when I got divorced from my first wife.I started to hang out with an ex-girlfriend.Then we stopped seeing each other because she wanted more and I only wanted a friend.
2007-01-18 17:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋