Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

She acts like she does not want to dance with me until I said I wanted to with her. Then, she suggests I dance with others until I ask if she wants to dance with me. Lastly, I say that I am already looking for another partner because she cannot come regularly, and she gets offended. What is going on here?

2007-01-18 16:15:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you ever try thinking about this crazy idea once in your life?
for women have you tried fantasizing that you were doing it with many men?
or that for once you once thought you would love to be raped?

or for men have you ever fantasized of raping someone?

its a crazy idea but honestly do you sometimes wish we can all just break the rules of society?

any crazy insane unwanted ideas that you wish you could do?

2007-01-18 16:15:22 · 1 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.

2007-01-18 16:14:19 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a felony for robbery at 18 and want to go to college but feel i wont get a good job

2007-01-18 16:13:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IN A LOVE STORY
HERO LOVES HEROIN BUT HEROIN LOVES VILLAN BUT VILLAN LOVES HERO'S SISTER BUT HERO'S SISTER LOVES HEROINS BROTHER BUT HEROINS BROTHER LOVES VILLANS SISTER BUT VILLANS SISTER LOVES HERO'S BROTHER BUT HERO'S BROTHER LOVES HEROIN FINALLY 2 PERSON COMMITS SUICIDE.
WHOS THAT?

2007-01-18 16:13:03 · 31 answers · asked by srishti 1 in Family

I can not stand at ppl lie, espcially if they closer to me, I guess my family are very honest and I don't know why, I get really mad when ppl lie. share your thoughts please. thanx

2007-01-18 16:12:21 · 6 answers · asked by Gooch 3 in Friends

for women have you tried fantasizing that you were doing it with many men?
or that for once you once thought you would love to be raped?

or for men have you ever fantasized of raping someone?

its a crazy idea but honestly do you sometimes wish we can all just break the rules of society?

2007-01-18 16:12:07 · 13 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy... well I feel attracted for him... but he is my friend's ex!!!!

2007-01-18 16:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I notice that some girls care and some don't. But i find more and more that most don't. Usually the ones that do are teenie bopper HS girls. Most college chix cud careless, unless they are just that way.

2007-01-18 16:09:14 · 49 answers · asked by borcthx 2 in Singles & Dating

I know she is concerned for me and I love her no matter what, but i feel like she is making me choose, and i can't. He is the father of my son and we are deeply in love. He has hurt me in the past, (emotionally, never physically), but we have had counselling and have dealt with our problems. We just want to share the rest of our lives together and I want my sister to be part of our lives, too. How do I show her that I'm happy, but I need her as well? She has refused to come to my engagement party and my hens night, and I'm worried she won't come to the wedding. How can I heal this rift between us which is causing me so much pain?

2007-01-18 16:07:48 · 10 answers · asked by knjw2050 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, my husband has a very limited sex drive. Is it stereotypical of me to assume that all men want sex when they can get it? He rarely goes to bed the same time I do at night. When he does come to bed hours later, he does not cuddle with me. We rarely kiss, almost never french kiss. I am usually the one who has to initiate sex. Is something wrong with him? When we started dating he did not want to have sex until the 4th month together. And what I find most curious is that he rarely touches my private-area and never really has prior to intercourse. Do other people have issues like this?

2007-01-18 16:07:37 · 9 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the thing is just a month back i had been proposed by a guy on a website, he was like madly interested in me, so i thought of accepting his proposal..everything was fine...finally i thought of putting up my photo and then i said as soon as i put up my photo even u have to do the same...so that even i will know who is the person to whom i say "i love u"
he disagreed initially but then on my request he thought of finally showing his face to me...so he called me to his place, and coincidently the place where he stays is the place where i used to stay...so i planned to meet my old friends first and then meet him..
so till this it was like smooth going...and then i called him 3 times from outside to ask him where is he..because the ultimate aim for me to come over there was to meet him...he said that he was standing in front of the ticket counter...but i dint see anyone over there...

2007-01-18 16:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been into my co worker for sum time,but we hardly talk just say hi now & again-yesterday i had to talk to him regarding work he stood behind my chair so close to me when i turned around he looked @me and all in my face then back into my eyes.I was so nervous and it was so obvious,anyway after that he didnt really bother with me,and he got jealous b4 if i talked to other guys?I dnt undersnd

2007-01-18 16:07:01 · 5 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

He is a family friend and since I started college 3 years ago, we have been very close, but just recently started hooking up, we have an amazing bond, and I can't imagine my life without him. He's so sweet to me, and I know that we would be happy together. We haven't come out with our relationship because we're waiting for the right time, when our friends and family's will be accepting. Particularly my family because I have a very wealthy traditional southern family. recently my mother sat me down and said she was concerned with my life choices, and claiming that she would disown me if I was making bad life choices. Then she said she thought they involved him stating that he is too old for me, not good enough, that i could have any guy in the world, blah blah. I assured her we were just friends in order to keep both of our lives intact. I've never felt like this about anyone before, and I know that he feels just as strongely about me. Should I try to work it out, or let him go?

2007-01-18 16:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

im 18, my gf who is also 18 is leavin to UK dis june to do her ALvls n complete univ after tht, we decided to call our relationship off, coz she wont b bak for ATLEAST 5 years & wont evn come bak 4 holidays, and i hav a realy weak heart & cant b in a long dist relationship. im so mesd up , the only thing in my mind is her n our memories (been 2gether for abt 6months) i lv her alot ALOT ALOT, we were very serious abt our relationship she wanted this to continue 4ever so did i,she wanted to hav 2 kids & wanted me to make her pregnant in the honeymoon night itslef hehe!! i lv her soooooo much, bt shes leavin i dunnnnno wat to do, ive been cryin at home, in skoool, car, shower, i cant contorl my tears i duno wat to do, plzzzzzzz help me thx 4 ur time

2007-01-18 16:05:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Neither my wife nor other women have any physical interest in me any more. A legal prostitute is expensive, but if it's affordable and safe sex is practiced, what's the big deal?

2007-01-18 16:04:58 · 20 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband moved in with me and I was helping him clean up some stuff from his old house and came across a letter to his ex that had identical statements he made to me and also some photos of her in identical places (like on the same park bench) that we had vacationed at. ETC. It weirded me out so much...what do you think?

2007-01-18 16:04:54 · 16 answers · asked by chocolatesandbreakfast 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 16:03:55 · 12 answers · asked by Ratt 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 16:03:10 · 14 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

or should u flirt????????? any ideas? thx in advance

2007-01-18 16:02:06 · 9 answers · asked by db 1 in Singles & Dating

I seem to find a lot of divorced men with at least 3 kids and so many of them are under 18 although the men tend to be in their 40s or 50s. I am reluctant to date someone with 3 kids even when they live with the ex because that means that he still has contact with his exwife and half his money is going to her for child support. I have one child who is almost grown and have to connection or obligations to my ex. What are the disadvatages to this type of guy and are their any advantages? I feel that a man with that many dependents would never be able to afford to spend money on me or make a home with me if we married because of all those kids.

2007-01-18 16:01:37 · 10 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

We split in 99, divorced in 03, after 11 years together (7 kinda dating;4 married) because of domestic violence; him against me. One child; 10. HIM: alcoholic, drug abuser, bum, loser, nothing to his name (not even a car), still lives with mommy, angry, full of hate and rage, insecure, parttime weight lifter, suffers from panic disorder (anxiety problems), narcissist, prick, prejudice, violent, hostile. Mean, negative, person. ME: none of the above. PROBLEM: I just began dating again. One very wonderful man that I dated briefly 15 years ago. My ex has gone bilistic over it. He began seriously threatening me and now the telephone harrassment will not stop. He took a test to join the Masons and passed-Bought a ring-Now he uses that ring to intimidate me and others. I have cut off communication and it is making him even more angrier. His telephone messages are horrible. Very threatening and disturbing. He is nuts. What should I do?

2007-01-18 16:01:24 · 18 answers · asked by Titanic112406 1 in Marriage & Divorce

had 2 go to the bathroom but been preoccupied with something else so u didnt

2007-01-18 16:01:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean what do i or what should i think of this?

2007-01-18 16:00:56 · 26 answers · asked by jumanjisapikey 3 in Singles & Dating

I've told him that I don't like him and that I don't wanna be with him! he keeps calling me 'babe/baby' and always says that I'm all his! He knows I've got boyfriend but he stil won't back off... I've told him to back off too but its not working!

whats his problem and how do I get rid of him?

2007-01-18 16:00:22 · 5 answers · asked by Rockerfairy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well, my girlfriend and I have been together unofficially for a few months now, and we are totally in love, I know we are, she tells me, and I tell her that I love her all the time. I have kiss her on the cheek all the time, and we hug all the time, but any time I try to kiss her like a real kiss on the lips, she avoids me, like she'll move her face away, and anything she can without being to obvious. She's been weird about this stuff before, and she's gotten a little better, but I really want to kiss her, she says that she loves me... so confused, please help, thanks...

2007-01-18 15:59:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.

2007-01-18 15:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think it's $ value might be.
The tray is small, about 16 inches long and 6 inces wide. The goblets about 6 inches in height.

2007-01-18 15:57:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been with him for 5 months and we haven't done anything sexual yet so what is a good way to get things started?

2007-01-18 15:56:53 · 17 answers · asked by Missty Rain 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i'm 16 now, and i've liked this girl i've known for a couple a years now,shes now 24 and i know her through my friend,she babysits for his parents every now and then,her and his family are close, and i used to see her at at walmart all the time we would talk and laugh and have a good quick little moments,and i would spend the night at my friend house and she was staying there the night watching us for his parents, well about 1 year ago i found out she was a lesbian, it crushed me, i knew it never would've worked out but at least i could always think theres that one little chance but now there not, well tonight i hung out at my friends house and she was watching them for the night, we went to a ballgame and me and her talked alot, we had a great time hanging out tonight, but it kills me cuz i know there no chance at all and shes the one and the only one since then i feel this strongly about, and i've tried to get , go out with other girls but never the same results what should i do?

2007-01-18 15:56:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating