My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.
2007-01-18 15:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some say he only wanted to see if I've chnaged and will have sex but he didn't ask me any personal questions. Can't it be that he just missed me?
2007-01-18 15:59:35 · update #1
Leave him be. He's trying to check up on you to see what you're up to and who you've been with. Don't give him any info. He broke up with you a year ago and you should move on. I hate guys like that, still trying to exert control over someone they are not even with. You have your own life and your own mind. Don't answer his calls again. He's bad news..
2007-01-18 16:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just weird like that. He might actually want to be friends with you. You are reading way too much into it but it's also good that you are apprehensive about his intentions. Be casual about it and don't ask him "why". He may also know how much you liked him or still wonder about the relationship and he needs the reassurance that he is wanted by someone. You need to move on too. Don't allow yourself to get confused by this guy. He is after all just a guy!
2007-01-18 16:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by forme2poopon73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him to meet up, leave it to him - i wouldn't take this one as marriage but as long as your having fun and nothing else is happening, then it doesn't seem like there is any harm in it. Maybe he just missed your company and not necessarily the relationship
2007-01-18 16:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i've been in something like that and guess what..i stop talk to my boyfriend to and just live my normal life he was the one who had walked out but i did nit let it matter and know he is the one who is calling of my phone so time guys will do this to girls,but they are up to something ....
2007-01-18 16:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by monique e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say he may be older but your on to his games.He wants to have you when he can for whenever.Girl please tell him no.Say something like we only dated a few months and I kinda don't think we should talk anymore.Guys like that love control-don't give him any.You'll be better off.
2007-01-18 16:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he still wants to be friends and yes take him to coffee he might want a good relationship but not to close
2007-01-18 16:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by kelsie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he definitly could have missed u and you should be grateful because most men I hate to hate are liar s and jerks.
2007-01-18 16:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋