My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.
2007-01-18 16:14:19 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has LOTS of friends so I know he's not lonely so does he really wanna be friends with someone he use to kiss & cuddle? What does he get out of seeing me every once in awhile? Is he planning on something?
2007-01-18 16:15:35 · update #1
As much as everyone says that all guys want is sex, that is not the only thing that guys ever think about. "every once and a while," eveyr guy, no matter what, wants to relive old times, "evern once in a while, every guy likes to just cuddle, hiss, hug, hold hands, and havea pure and beautiful thing.
Old relationships die hard, and there's always a little something tugging on us to find out how so-and-so's doing, or she what happened with whoever. Mayve he's just remembering happier days. Maybe he's hoping to get back together again.
Maybe he's had a less innocent time since you were last together, or just learned second hand how crude things can be, and maybe he's hoping to get back with you because of how nice and pure it was.
The simple truth of the matter is, that every once in a while, us guys like to see girls we liked, even if we know it'll never work out again. No matter how ugly the breakup was, our exes are still pretty, and we invested a lot of time into them. It seems strange to never ever see them again at all.
Whatever it was he wanted, you two didn't have sex last time because you were saving yourself, so if you still want to save yourself, you can probably resist any lines he may throw down. If you enjoy seeing a movie, or having coffe with him every once in a while, go for it. If you don't enjoy your time with him, then you don't even need to give him the time of day.
2007-01-18 16:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful not to become too attached. I think it is possible that he just wants to be friends, its hard to know. If the relationship wasn't that serious, maybe friendship is still possible. Or maybe he regrets the break-up and wants to see how things go this time.
2007-01-19 00:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by ophierose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may just want to be friend with you, and there really nothing wrong with that as long as he know that nothing has change about how you feel. if he looking for something else then let
him know up front and leave it at that, keep your eyes open
but it sound like he really miss your friend ship.
2007-01-19 00:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋