the thing is just a month back i had been proposed by a guy on a website, he was like madly interested in me, so i thought of accepting his proposal..everything was fine...finally i thought of putting up my photo and then i said as soon as i put up my photo even u have to do the same...so that even i will know who is the person to whom i say "i love u"
he disagreed initially but then on my request he thought of finally showing his face to me...so he called me to his place, and coincidently the place where he stays is the place where i used to stay...so i planned to meet my old friends first and then meet him..
so till this it was like smooth going...and then i called him 3 times from outside to ask him where is he..because the ultimate aim for me to come over there was to meet him...he said that he was standing in front of the ticket counter...but i dint see anyone over there...
2007-01-18 16:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess he lied to me...but maybe he saw me...and maybe he dint find me so attractive!!...but the worst part was that he dint call me after that day...not even a call...a person who used to call me up for 3-4 times a day...now doesnt call me up doesnt even give a blank call nothing!! (how can a person be so selfish??!!) he is such a @@#$%%..he dint even think abt me not even once!!..i feel like i have been ditched badly!!
iam completely depressed because one of my best friends have been expired...this is like a dual attack on me!!
help me tell me what to do??..how to speak to him what to speak to him??...what should be my next step..and folks u know what he has become so ruthless...that he doesnt even mind to message me once thru the website
2007-01-18 16:13:50 · update #1
may be his nerves are getting a grip on him or he's not that confident yet to come up to you straight on.tell him to act like a man and stop playing these games if he wants to go any further with you. but you too be safe coz i don't think the best place to meet guys is the Internet. a lot of psychos with fake profiles out there.take care.
2007-01-18 16:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first mistake don't say yes to a proposal with out even seeing him b4. The other bad idea beleve it or not there are people out there just waiting to get someone over to thier house and then BAM!!! kidnap, rape, murder, whatever! I'd tell him 2 4get it for ur safty!
2007-01-19 00:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why i dont like internet dating stuff. it creeps me out cuz sometimes you dont know what youre getting into. i personally think its better to get out and do stuff, but i guess theres different stuff for everyone..
you should plan to meet at a coffee house or something, where you cant have some sort of weird reenactment of resivoir dogs or silence of the lambs or something like that -- no es bueno. i dunno. if you have a way, contact him and tell him how you feel. for me, its hard to 'love' someone, when you havent seen them in person. yeah, looks arent that important, but it still is good to know the physical person - not the cyber person - that youre supposedly going to marry. its just my opinion, but i DONT think marriage is something to be messed around with. it is a serious commitment, and if you havent met the person, let alone get them to be reliable when youre trying to meet them, its not something you want to rush into. im only 17, but trust me. ive had plenty of family and step-family issues to write a series of books. it kindof sounds to me that the person that youre thinking of getting committed with is not that reliable or sincere. be careful, theres a LOT of messed up people in this world. step with care.
2007-01-19 00:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by xxdemuffinman420xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't get a thing of what happened....
2007-01-19 00:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your problem?? i did not get the answer..
2007-01-19 00:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lolita S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You write pretty good fiction............
2007-01-19 00:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋