ok i'm 16 now, and i've liked this girl i've known for a couple a years now,shes now 24 and i know her through my friend,she babysits for his parents every now and then,her and his family are close, and i used to see her at at walmart all the time we would talk and laugh and have a good quick little moments,and i would spend the night at my friend house and she was staying there the night watching us for his parents, well about 1 year ago i found out she was a lesbian, it crushed me, i knew it never would've worked out but at least i could always think theres that one little chance but now there not, well tonight i hung out at my friends house and she was watching them for the night, we went to a ballgame and me and her talked alot, we had a great time hanging out tonight, but it kills me cuz i know there no chance at all and shes the one and the only one since then i feel this strongly about, and i've tried to get , go out with other girls but never the same results what should i do?
2007-01-18 15:56:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is babysitting your friends, then she is too old for you anyway. Find a girl your own age.
2007-01-18 15:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Being a lesbian is not a disease, so it doesn't stop there. If it makes you afraid to tell the truth, well then just be friends for a while. Make her feel so special, treat her like princess, be a gentleman to her. In that way she will feel secure and loved being by your side. She might change her preference after she felt that she is special. Girls always wanted to be pampered. Let her see all your positive sides. You'll never know she might fall for you if she sees that you are a good guy. And remember, don't take advantage. This is just the beginning of your friendship, let your friendship grow fonder, then love will follow soon.
2007-01-18 16:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ease young grasshopper... Age does make a differences. first if you get to talk to her wait until your over 18 out the house have a job then try to talk to her and see where she's coming from... For all you know she might like you later....
2007-01-18 16:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by RIchard H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she seems like a responsible girl so maybe you should talk about it with her and tell her that you like her heaps and know there would never be anything between you because of her preference. Then again, maybe it is because you can't have her, that you want her!!
2007-01-18 16:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously...ur 16 shes 24 big age difference and that would be stagetory rape first off....get off it...find someone ur own age...i know u care for her but dont u think shes a little old for you i mean shes 8 years older than you and ur onlyy 16....not the best idea....
2007-01-18 16:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hard to know what to do when you have had strong feeling for someone for such a long time and now your heart is crushed
but as time goes on the your heart will heal. but you will learn
to see other girls and not judge them for not being her, but
just take this time to start to find your self. it will get better
good luck.
2007-01-18 16:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh. im sorry. that sucks. i guess its best to just let her go. youre 16. youll find new love. guaranteed!
she was too old for you anyway.
2007-01-18 15:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by lalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say from readng the first sentence is she's wayyyyyyy to old for u!!!
2007-01-18 15:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by The tiger :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend, but if you want a girl friend, you're gonna have to look somewhere else...
2007-01-18 16:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull into reality!!! BIG AGE DIFFERENCE THERE!!!! Plus if she's a lezbo she wantz girlz not guyz!
2007-01-18 16:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋