im 18, my gf who is also 18 is leavin to UK dis june to do her ALvls n complete univ after tht, we decided to call our relationship off, coz she wont b bak for ATLEAST 5 years & wont evn come bak 4 holidays, and i hav a realy weak heart & cant b in a long dist relationship. im so mesd up , the only thing in my mind is her n our memories (been 2gether for abt 6months) i lv her alot ALOT ALOT, we were very serious abt our relationship she wanted this to continue 4ever so did i,she wanted to hav 2 kids & wanted me to make her pregnant in the honeymoon night itslef hehe!! i lv her soooooo much, bt shes leavin i dunnnnno wat to do, ive been cryin at home, in skoool, car, shower, i cant contorl my tears i duno wat to do, plzzzzzzz help me thx 4 ur time
2007-01-18 16:05:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is gonna be hard ..... you are young.... if you need to take some time to yourself take it ..... but you need to move on .... you can be best friends but she will be there and you here ..... take some time and move on ...... i went through the some of the hardest break ups at your age ... there will be more and it will hurt more or less than this ... but if you dont keep trying you will never find the one .... and if in five years you havent and she hasnt either maybe you can reconnect ... but for now ... it is best to get on with your life ... sorry to be so blunt but i have been there and still havent found my one and only yet
2007-01-18 16:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have some friends, both are around 18 and 19, been together for years, she's going off to college, and he's going into the military. They probly won't see eachother for up to 6 years, but they decided to stay together. It takes strength and patience to stay in a long distance relationship, call and apologize to her, tell her that you were wrong and you can't live without atleast knowing that you would be together after she gets back. If you love her so much prove it by waiting and keeping yourself pure.
2007-01-18 16:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Cayla 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aw you poor thing, first off, if you LOVE her that much, all I can say is to follow her. Hey, it'd be interesting enough alright living in the UK for a few years. Or, maybe you could make it a point to visit often if money isn't an issue. This can still work out and it's not the end.
Remember that God has a plan for everything, so everything will work out in the end!
Good luck to y'all and God bless! :)
2007-01-18 16:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love her to that point then your answer is simple...follow her.
Often the most viable solution is the simplest. If this is what will make you both happy then whats the problem.
2007-01-18 16:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by doofynic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow I did not realize how many people type questions and blogs like they're sending a text message. This is getting annoying and almost scary. Suck it up.
2007-01-18 16:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Most people on Answers speak ENGLISH!!
2007-01-18 16:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rabbit 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
follow your heart and follow her...nothing is impossible if you love each other...
2007-01-18 16:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by gelize 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋