What should I do about harrassment from my psycho ex ? He threatens me with his Mason judge friend?

Question

We split in 99, divorced in 03, after 11 years together (7 kinda dating;4 married) because of domestic violence; him against me. One child; 10. HIM: alcoholic, drug abuser, bum, loser, nothing to his name (not even a car), still lives with mommy, angry, full of hate and rage, insecure, parttime weight lifter, suffers from panic disorder (anxiety problems), narcissist, prick, prejudice, violent, hostile. Mean, negative, person. ME: none of the above. PROBLEM: I just began dating again. One very wonderful man that I dated briefly 15 years ago. My ex has gone bilistic over it. He began seriously threatening me and now the telephone harrassment will not stop. He took a test to join the Masons and passed-Bought a ring-Now he uses that ring to intimidate me and others. I have cut off communication and it is making him even more angrier. His telephone messages are horrible. Very threatening and disturbing. He is nuts. What should I do?

Answer 1

. I am a Mason. You have alot of problems going on here. But i cant tell you his mason friends will be on your side. Call his lodge tell the master of the lodge what he has done. Most likely he will be kick out. If it is a well run lodge he should be kicked out for committing any crime. If he is some how using the fact he is a mason to threaten you ANY lodge will kick him out. Part of the masonic oath is to protect a brother masons wife widow and orphans. You are divorced but in my opinion that part of my oath would still apply. You may need some documents from the police to prove your case to the lodge because some might see you as a bitter ex-wife trying to get revenge. But if what you say is true and they believe you he will be kicked out. As far as the other problem the police need to deal with it

Remember doing favors for that are illegal for each other is not part of masonry it is in fact very much the opposite of what is taught at a lodge.

Answer 2

Cutting off communication is a good idea. Keep his messages and call the police. Sometimes you have insist that they do everything in they're power to protect you. You should see about getting a restraining order. If he's already hit you during your marriage then there's no telling what he might do. Take care and be safe

Answer 3

call the police let them hear these [ taped messages ] put a protective order on him and have him arrested do not play games.every single time he calls or threatens get the police involved.do not argue w/him let a answering machine pick up all calls unless you have id caller so that way you do not pick up one of his.i don't understand the ring ,how does that intimidate,just keep calm if you see him and go the other way.if all this is partly true he could be very dangerous for you and your child.good luck.

Answer 4

What so the Masons are scary now are they.....lol
Tell him to go to his mason mates and they can go an have group sex with a goat or something similar.

Dont be afraid of him keep in contact with your new boyfriend and make the authorities aware of the ogoing harrassment (keep reporting to police any issues)so if something serious happens then they are well informed of the situation and can charge the nutter quickly.

Answer 5

Call the cops, put a restraining order on him. Press charges for stalking. NO judge is going to lose their job to protect a "buddy"

If you are worried about the judge, get a lawer in another town and have them request a differet judge or have the case moved to a different judges juristiction

There are laws in place to protect you. You need to call the cops ASAP so they can start tracking and building a case.

Answer 6

Start a paper trail. Document everything. Call the Police, in a domestic violence case they have to take the report.
Be safe.

Answer 7

law enforcement officials dont care b/c they have higher fish to fry, and apparently he's not major onn the great scale of drug sellers interior the realm. Posters would get the message out yet undesirable ploblisity may also enable human beings recognize the position to get drugs in the journey that they opt for some. they basically way human beings does not believe him will be to make posters up of him being a snitch. one problem the drug community hates is a snitch. each and every hear of the declaring snitches get stiches? No lie rat him out for being a snitch someone will shelter something else.

Answer 8

Call the police every single time. Don't take any **** from him. Get a restraining order against him. He sounds like he could be scarey, be careful. I've been involved with a guy like this.....it turned out to be very scarey. Protect yourself.

Answer 9

you need to take him to court get a restraining order, baby he's not a judge! hes trying to intimidate you. my ex did and is still doing the same thing.... it wont work once you go to court and get the RO..... SAVE THE PHONE MESSAGES. file a police report, make note of all his calls and bring them to court with you!!! oh my gosh.... dont let him do this to you, you will never get rid of him unless you do this... have a friend go to court with you for moral support.... i promise if you do this, you will feel so much better.... you will get the restraining order, he probably wont even show up for court ~ druggies dont back up their threats honey.... if you need more info about this, lemme know.good luck the first step is the hardest but your strong~ youve already left him~!!

Answer 10

seems like you picked a real winner. about your psycho ex, first get the restraining order. also, consider moving far away to another city/state and make sure he doesn't know about it. finally, consider buying a handgun for protection since he sounds like a reeeeal psychotic piece of sh*t and probably feels he has nothing to lose in life if he did something terrible to you. obviously, his own life isn't important to him so why would he think that anyone else's life is important?! see what i mean?!!