I have been with him for 5 months and we haven't done anything sexual yet so what is a good way to get things started?
2007-01-18 15:56:53 · 17 answers · asked by Missty Rain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not to young i'm 20 it's just I'm shy and he means a lot to me
2007-01-18 16:06:15 · update #1
He isn't gay but he tld me at the start he wanted to take things slow
2007-01-18 16:12:48 · update #2
Be really clear. Guys just don't pick up on subtle signals. It's a sad reality of our species. Say something like "you know, i've never told you how sexy you are. every day i realize you're more irresistable." And then put your moves on. You don't have to have sex with him that second. But do something sexier than usual to spark his interest. A great way to tell him that would be to come up behind him and whisper it in his ear. Then run your hands up and down his chest or arms as you say it. Him not seeing you, but you saying something saucy and touching him will turn him on. Then you're in a prime place to drop your hands lower...or come around to the front and give him some really animal hungry kisses....etc....
2007-01-18 16:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by goodgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that you are a consenting adult and you are mature enough for a sexual relationship:
If you are feeling it and want to get him into the bedroom, the next time you two are kissing, work those fingers down his back and then run it across his chest ever so softly and gently. He should get the message. If not, he is either not ready for sex or he has other issues (gay, impotence, religious values, etc.)
If you are under the age of 18, you might want to cool off and wait. Also make sure he wears a condom or you are on birth control pills.
2007-01-19 00:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume yall kiss, so start by kissing and making out, and move your hands down there. Touch over his clothes at first. Then next time unzip his pants and touch him. Also place his hand on your breast, or other areas, and work from there. If he shows he is not comfortable stop. Stay where his is just barely comfortable for a while and try going further again. Often too much at once can make it no fun. Nervous sex is not good sex.
2007-01-19 00:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by charley_king2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all is he sexually attracted to you? Have you asked him why he's taking his time with you? Could be this guy is a real gentleman and doesn't want to emotionally hurt you or himself. Maybe he's afraid to make the first move for fear of rejection. Could he be saving himself for marriage and has morals that confuse you? He could be gay?I'm not trying to be insensitive about that, ok but, there could be many reasons why he hasn't made a move on you in five months. I would find out why before you just dive right in because, you could push him away.
2007-01-19 00:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by saturn man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy I can def say it's a turn-on when the girl makes a move. Just start kissing him and let your hands wander...he'll get the picture. And if you're not in the bedroom already...just whisper in his ear..."Let's go to the bedroom."
2007-01-19 00:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by scoobydoodah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm start making out with him and slowly start taking your clothes of and his and he should get the point from there.
2007-01-19 00:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you kiss a guy can let him know without a doubt.
But I'm thinking if you have to ask......you're too young....wait.
2007-01-19 00:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When your alone start kissing him then move your hands down there and go from there
2007-01-19 00:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmm, let me think, uh tell him!! thats a great start. let him know you want to take things further and if not wait for him, maybe you have found a great guy dont hold sex against him.
2007-01-19 00:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Msranda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him over and answer the door naked. He should get the hint.
2007-01-19 00:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by t_man132003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋