i am with my long time boyfriend of 8 years he is also my first and only bf. we had 2 gorgeous kids, but i still can't get over a fling sweety relationship i had 6 years ago. It was when my relationship w/ my bf got giddy. this other guy and I sended flirt text messages and sweet nothings then, it all ended when my bf and I got back together. I find myself crazy like a weird silent stalker. I still sometimes try to look for him on the net. like secretly view his profile, hoping to see him in the mall. i feel like such a cheat on my bf and kids for doing it. I wonder how i can totally get over him. he's still single and available as of the moment. Is it normal for a person to not get over someone?
2007-01-18 18:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by Kady_14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People who say "follow your heart" are either selfish or idealistic. What they don't tell you (perhaps they don't know, in which case you can't blame them) is that completely doing so will most likely end up hurting other people. Like your kids and your boyfriend. Now, I can't judge from your dilemma, if you can call it one, and maybe there's much more to the story than I'm getting, but if your "fling" is based on "sweet nothings" then it doesn't really say much about you. Wake up. The only reason you're not getting over this deep, everlasting bond founded on text messages is because you can't resist the feeling of being liked by someone who isn't stuck with you.
- Alexz
2007-01-18 18:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Alexz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him there is nothing wrong with that unless your married. It seems like u still have a thing for him. I know this is bad but go for some coffee u won't be satisfied till there is some closeure. Once u find out that this guy isn;t the guy u thought he was the more u will be running back to you bf's arms more sure of your relationship.
2007-01-18 18:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes in our head we hang on to what could have been. You need to close that door. you made a choice which man you wanted. now stand behind the choice you made and stay with him, In good times and bad.
Let go of this man in your past.
2007-01-18 18:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by xxgq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont believe that you are not over him. i think you are chasing a feeling. it sounds like he was your emotional escape in the past and your mind is trying to remind you of that but remember it is only temptation and it is not worth breaking up your home. you seem to love your family alot.
2007-01-18 18:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart
2007-01-18 18:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you need to stop this... for the kids sake...
2007-01-18 18:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Rain L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
silly .marriage and kids.stop this. nonsense.someone to beat you.
2007-01-18 18:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by raju 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you love this guy
2007-01-18 18:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by jiveybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋