Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

So, even though my guy is a wrestler, I always eat more than him when we go out to eat. Is that a bad thing? Should I hold back a little more?

2007-01-15 06:35:45 · 26 answers · asked by iluvatm 2 in Singles & Dating

but i have a baby and a husband i work in the morning and plan to go to school by night am i wrong for wanting to do this because i wont spend that much time with them I NEED ADVICE????

2007-01-15 06:35:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother, his family and I drove 800 miles to see my dad ( he's very ill ) We stayed Friday afternoon until Sunday afternoon. On Saturday my brother , his family & I went to lunch. My brother's wife saw a desk she wanted and had to have. She went back to my dad's found the desk in Savannah and then along with my brother and his children left to go buy this desk ( they were gone for four hours ) They could have bought it online and had it shipped for a hundred bucks. The desk & hutch came unassembled which they crammed into the minivan crowding me and the two kids. Needless to say it was a very uncomfortable ride. After the 14 hours in the car we arrive at my brothers where I walked into his house without wiping my feet. He got pissed and started in with his crap that I am ungrateful for the ride ( I had an open plane ticket all ready purchased I didn't need his ride I just thought my dad would like to see the family together ) I told him he was selfish. Was I wrong.

2007-01-15 06:35:37 · 6 answers · asked by colleen c 2 in Family

ok this is weird question.. i feel very awkward in social situations especially at college.. ok i wana be more confident and i wana have a better self esteem about myself but its so scary... i mean whever i try and show my personality they always end up lookin at me like i am a fool my councellor said i should try and be more trusting with people (dunno wat tht means) and tht i shoud try and be more open.. but i cant... am so scared theyre gona take the mik or sat something horrible about me for example 'oh tht quiet girl just spoke haha' and out of tht whoole collge av onli managed to make one frnd.. they always seem to not wana hang around with me.. i hate myself, i mean every1 else seems to be spo outgoing and proud of whothey are but me, av bin seein a councellor but i dnt think its gona work.. i mean everytime i manage to win over a fear a second one comes and takes over then when i combat that 1 another comes and takes over... help plz..

2007-01-15 06:35:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like the idea of different (but not too crazy). Both me and my fiance like the idea of going a bit non-traditional. What do you girls think about different color bride's dress? Any ideas welcome! :)

2007-01-15 06:33:40 · 26 answers · asked by LionessB 3 in Weddings

what are some ways to teach him romance. is there something i can do?

2007-01-15 06:33:00 · 22 answers · asked by it's me, julie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 06:32:59 · 25 answers · asked by Bonnie J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 06:32:13 · 22 answers · asked by Jessie K 1 in Weddings

This year both the gir bball teams, boys and girls are going to Charlotte for our tournement. One of the guys that I really like is on the bball team. i am on the girls' bball team. We do a lot of things at Shamrock like play games with bottles (hint, hint). I have never really kissed anyone like i mean kissed. We most likely will play the game. How do you do it?

2007-01-15 06:31:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he loved me first...and i gave him a lot of attention b4 i fell!
Im in a relationship with this guy, he says he loves me, but he keeps having affairs on me all the time; fantasy cyber and with real women...it does not bother me that he does the whole porn thing, but it does with real women,(he lies all the time) but he gets so involved he totally cuts me off from sex, talking, etc...then once its over for him he buys me a guilt gift. I love him so much and it took me a little time to fall, but now that i have he is playing with my heart...and it hurts really bad...ive devoted so much to him and ive never felt this way about anyone b4... But i know if i were to have an affair on him of any kind i would loose him....i know your saying hes not worth it,,,why did he play with my heart... Ive been so loyal to him but i need love too!

2007-01-15 06:31:21 · 5 answers · asked by Iwantyou247 1 in Singles & Dating

to be at least great friends. If you will only not change your mind! For there are no promises that are binding; such things cannot be ordered at will. It would be a fine thing, just the same, in which I hardly dare believe, to pass our lives near each other, hypnotized by our dreams: your patriotic dream, our humanitarian dream, and our scientific dream.

2007-01-15 06:31:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like my dad's neighbor. I have never been one to ask someone out, but I would really like to with him. My dad told me that he always asks about me when ever they talk. What should I do?

2007-01-15 06:31:05 · 4 answers · asked by jessica c 2 in Singles & Dating

Yea, I know men do too, but Lord Have Mercy, a lot of 40ish women have hangups!

2007-01-15 06:30:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is money important to date a guy ? dont give me philosophy, just be frank ! please- thnxxx

2007-01-15 06:30:16 · 25 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

I think i dumped my boyfriend for the wrong reason. i dumoed him because other ppl thought he was ugly and didn't like him and because he was going to fast he held my hand in the first week.

2007-01-15 06:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by DrumStickin' 2 in Singles & Dating

from your parents to your boss, your lover to your neightbours crazy dog...who would you tell what to???...heres your chance to air it...dont forget to have fun though...;0)

2007-01-15 06:29:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 06:29:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haave a bf and he just moved to Tx and his friends told me that we were thru and so another guy asked me out and i said yes is that abad thing?

2007-01-15 06:29:12 · 11 answers · asked by daddysgirl01 1 in Singles & Dating

The topic of the golden rule came into my mind recently, and one of my friends said there should be another rule, that says "Love others the way they want to be loved." This got me thinking... and then I was thought "I'll never fully be able to know how someone else wants to be loved, because they'll never fully tell me how they want to be loved." Any thoughts?

2007-01-15 06:28:59 · 17 answers · asked by The Lonely Skywolf 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to buy for my bf. And if i asked him he won't tell me so do you have any ideas?
P.S. He's a gothic/metalhead type guy.

2007-01-15 06:28:50 · 3 answers · asked by forever666 2 in Singles & Dating

How am I supposed to deal with my brother's wife? When I was single I spent a lot of time with my brother and his wife and another couple. Eventually I met someone and got married and had a child. Now I don't have as much time to spend with my brother and his wife. My sister -in-law has not taken this well. Everytime they have a party or they are going out and they ask me and I am unable to go, she gets really mad at me and will stop talking to me. Sometimes this silent treatment will go on for months. It makes it very awkward at family gatherings. She won't even look at my wife and me.
Then she will try to turn things around and tell everyone I am mad at her. She does this same thing to other members of my family if she feels like they have somehow wronged her.
I have noticed that she never has any friends for very long. She will have a friend for a while and all of a sudden you never see them again.
What do I do about this? I can't just tell her to f*** off.

2007-01-15 06:28:15 · 15 answers · asked by Marco 4 in Family

Wait I didn't explain it right... He had a girlfriend when we first started dating..... Should I be worried that he will do the same thing to me?????

2007-01-15 06:27:31 · 23 answers · asked by CHEATER 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you guys consider romantic? What can a girl do for you to prove that she really cares? Roses, letters, hugs, kisses, what would make your day? Please don't give me stupid answers like sex.

2007-01-15 06:27:27 · 10 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3 in Singles & Dating

i feel like i am in the middle of their drama right now. trying to be friends with both of them, but they spat and nit-pic. it seems like a lot of my conversation with them are about the other one. i always give the same advice for them to talk to each other, and they don't.
my husband says to stay out of it, but i am not good at keeping my opinions to myself, and they keep bringing it up.
do i just fall off the face of the earth or what??!! i am sick of them turning to me for answers to THEIR problems.

2007-01-15 06:27:20 · 1 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3 in Friends

Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me altogether, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada and it's really awkward.

2007-01-15 06:26:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i get rid of these feelings and straighten up? im ugly and fat. i can change the fat but dont know how. im never horney and i am sick of my life. dont know what to do. my crisis

2007-01-15 06:26:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 24. she is 29. I have known her for 3 years. I have never gone out with any other woman. For 3 years my family thinks she is just a GOOD friend of mine, because they expect me not to marry her. She is very nice and even my family says she is, but I think it's because we have different backgrounds. Her parents/family love me and want me to marry her.
My family would basically REALLY hate me if I did it and more.
what do I do?

2007-01-15 06:26:38 · 14 answers · asked by jon 1 in Singles & Dating

most recent she nicked a piece of homework my brother did b4 he died i had it for years then she spoke to me like i was nothing for asking her if she took it when i was little she treated me like a servent i was only 5 when she left me home alone with a hard core porno on to look after my baby sister when she was just days old. she used to bash my head on the floor if i didnt clean it propper and meny other things to hurt me. i wasnt aloud to go to school alot because i was often covered in bruseis i was raped every night by her boyfriend and when i told her she tried to hit me and called me a lier i eventually got out at the age of 12 but her boy friend went on to rape my sister every night if she had of belived me my sister would have been spared even today being 25 married with my own 3 children which i would never dream hurting or makeing them feel as i did as a child my pain still gos on its very raw and she is still hurting me to day i want to divorse her how please

2007-01-15 06:25:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

One of my coworkers always says he has to go "feed the hamsters"when he is doing vent checks. I wonder if hamsters really run the vents? If so i need to go get some hamster food

2007-01-15 06:25:55 · 1 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

dont bother replying if your going to say 'looks dont matter' or 'every shape is beautiful' or anything to that effect!

2007-01-15 06:24:58 · 11 answers · asked by dasistgut_15 2 in Singles & Dating