I think i dumped my boyfriend for the wrong reason. i dumoed him because other ppl thought he was ugly and didn't like him and because he was going to fast he held my hand in the first week.
2007-01-15 06:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by DrumStickin' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way i thought he was hot. the girl that said he was ugly is no longer my friend so if u say i am shallow i don't care. i forgot to add i also dumped him because he was moving to Nebraska!!
2007-01-15 06:40:49 · update #1
There are two reasons you mentioned 1) he was going to fast 2) others thought he was ugly. The fact that he was going to fast is something you hove discuss with him if you feel that he not able to then i guess you have no choice however the fact that others think he is ugly is unfortunately a very common reason however you should give a dam about what others think since there is more to a person then his looks i am not saying it in the shallow way however it has been my experience that i met people who at first i thought where unattractive and when i got to know them things changed yeah he might not be a model but that's not what you should be looking for. I geese you have to decide if you can deal with ignoring what others think as i have many friends that agree with what i have stated and felt that they cant deal with it
P.S. you do not have to respond to what people say obviously the person who said your to shallow might think their not that can be true there is nothing that was said which is indicative however one thing is for shore they are cowards untactful and a scared to insult people in real life so they log onto yahoo answers and take the time to call people names
2007-01-15 06:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Auther S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if there have been a reason, the sumptuous aspect to do is provide someone closure and make sparkling 'why' themes did not artwork out. to not income this may be leaving an eternal question and by no skill giving that guy or lady the danger to appreciate and per chance better ideal themselves interior the destiny.
2016-11-24 19:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kind of but at the same time it was for the right reasons. if he was really goin to fast u should give him a second chance and tell him how u feal when he does that he will understand trust me i have been datin a guy for almost 3 months and he understood me when i told him that. if your friends think he is ugly and retarded who cares if u like him than ignore everybody else.
laura
2007-01-15 06:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by lauraczu2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a shallow person. Holding hands the first week? Im gonna guess your about 11. Do not date until you are 17.
2007-01-15 06:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by wheelsup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girl, but it sounds really inmature what you did. I think holding your hand on the first week is nothing shocking or too fast. and if you liked him, what does it matter what others think? if he's treating you right and he's respectful towards you. i think he deserves soemone who's mature and knows what she wants.
2007-01-15 06:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what reason?
Ugly? Yeah, wrong reason.
Too fast?
Perfect reason.
2007-01-15 06:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Second guessing now may be too late! Learn from what you did and move on. Good luck.
2007-01-15 06:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats the wrong reason if your freinds thought that you were to skinny would you get fat? i doubt it... its the same thing i broke up with one my bfs because a friend told me to big mistake! i liked him a lot...sometimes its better to do what you want.
2007-01-15 06:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by rawrimadinosaur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, wrong reason. Think for yourself.
2007-01-15 06:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋