i feel like i am in the middle of their drama right now. trying to be friends with both of them, but they spat and nit-pic. it seems like a lot of my conversation with them are about the other one. i always give the same advice for them to talk to each other, and they don't.
my husband says to stay out of it, but i am not good at keeping my opinions to myself, and they keep bringing it up.
do i just fall off the face of the earth or what??!! i am sick of them turning to me for answers to THEIR problems.
2007-01-15 06:27:20 · 1 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
o.k this is scary. You sound just like a coworker of mine with the exact same problem only you can't be her because she is at work right now, I got off early. I always tell her the same thing your husband tells you stay out of it. It sounds,(in her case) that they are using her to spy on or get to the other. Like the only time they talk to her is to ask "have you talked to ....what is...doingSo I tell her to stay out of it and tell them if they want to be her friend then don't only aske about the other but show conscern for her.
2007-01-15 06:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by 'lil peanut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋