is money important to date a guy ? dont give me philosophy, just be frank ! please- thnxxx
2007-01-15 06:30:16 · 25 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, i am a guy..but....date him, just don`t marry him
2007-01-15 06:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by pipebosss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not being trying to be philosophical but, reverse the question and then stew it over. Is it okay for a guy to date a gal if she doesn't have money? Is money important to date a gal? I'm not a girl, and coming from a man's point of view if a woman summed up my value by my bank account I would dump her on her a**. There is nothing more despicable than a gold digger.
2007-01-15 14:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by sloop_sailor 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure-it's fine to date someone who doesn't have a lot of money...just be prepared to be more limited on what you guys can do when you are together. Money comes and goes-I mean, if you dated a rich guy and he lost all his wealth, would you take off? Not if you got with him for something a little deeper than the thickness of his wallet.
2007-01-15 14:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it is that I'm not dating the money I'm dating the guy. There are many cheap ways to have great dates so no money isn't that important (too me anyway)
2007-01-15 14:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by stargazer673 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Money shouldn't matter in a relationship. All that should matter is how you two feel about each other. Dates can be romantic no matter how much money is spent. I think you should give a guy a chance, regardless of the number of zeros in his bank account.
2007-01-15 14:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah It's Okay to Date a Guy That's not rich. But be careful because he might try to steal your money. Don't let him take your credit card or anything. Trust him with everything else but your money.
2007-01-15 14:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Monica! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, money is not important when choosing a mate, at least not to me, however, I think it's important to choose someone who can take care of himself, is moving forward in life, and who will not be dependent on you for money.
2007-01-15 14:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. As long as he contributes what he can to the mutual pot, there are a lot more important things than money. I see it break people up quick, though!
2007-01-15 14:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can deal with it! i did have a serious relationship w/ this guy who earned less than me, and sometiems it became a problem cause i felt like most of the stuff were beign paid by me and i always coudlnt' spend $ on things I wanted to. but if you really like that person you can work it out.
2007-01-15 14:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you care about a person then it shouldn't matter but unfortunately alot of women are "gold diggers"-so called. My husband and I were broke as hell when we met but with both of us together we have built a healthy financial life.
2007-01-15 14:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by pro2call10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its ok... if u really love him who cares how much money hes has!!!
2007-01-15 14:36:41 · answer #11 · answered by Kenzie. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋