Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

2007-01-15 05:58:15 · 4 answers · asked by troxie79 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Boyfriend is a seperated man who a couple weeks ago was "found out" by his wife that he was seeing me, and 'Chilled' things out with me...no phone calls or text and very little communication. Now he is starting to have more conversations with me and 'hinting' around about having sex. I feel that we need to rebuild the relationship and the amount of non-sexual intimacy before we jump into a sexual encounter. Otherwise I feel like that's all he's in it for??

2007-01-15 05:57:32 · 22 answers · asked by gwen s 1 in Singles & Dating

iv got a new boyfriend and we had a real good weekend tgether
but a girl he use to go to school with and a x friend of mine was talking to him to day and he txt me once sayin she had something to tell me but i had to txt him first he hasnt txt back yet what do you think could of hppend or what can i txt him to see whats happening?

2007-01-15 05:57:03 · 6 answers · asked by x HuNniBuN x 2 in Singles & Dating

in your day today that no one else did???...from a raindrop to your partner sleeping to your credit card bill......;0)

2007-01-15 05:56:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's the best way for a man to relax before sex so he can make sure he can preform ok? My girlfriend and I have been back together for about a month and a half now. We haven't had sex yet but the time is here. We broke up and she started a new relationship and of course we got back together. We've talked about the past and we still have some problems, but we love each other and we are working through those things so we can move forward. I have stuff in my mind from the past that I think about and I'm concerned that when we start to have sex that these thoughts will kill the mood if you know what I mean. I don't want to frustrate her since this is the first time since the break up. What can I do to get past this and make things good when the time comes? Is there a good over the counter pill or something that can up me relax and be at ease?

2007-01-15 05:55:34 · 15 answers · asked by Northstarr 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 05:55:20 · 6 answers · asked by Ian J 1 in Friends

describe the perfect girl.. physicall and other stuff too

2007-01-15 05:55:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this a problem ? I am married to someone else now. It was a pretty vivid dream.

2007-01-15 05:54:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i deal with it? we were together for two years, but it was long distance for about 20months of it. i am so confused. he stil wants us to remain as best friends and he still wants to see me n talk/txt me as usual. i dont know if this is a good thing bcos as soon as he gets another girl, all that will stop and it will be another heart ache right? should we just go for a clean break? it really hurts at the moment, and the thought of remaining close is very appealing but what do you think?

2007-01-15 05:54:40 · 27 answers · asked by Smiley 3 in Singles & Dating

I've read the Mars/Venus book, and it was quite insightful but not as useful as it could have been to me. Any others you'd recommend? Could you describe your recommendations a bit?
Thanks much.

2007-01-15 05:54:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

most of the girls in my training centure see there bf everyday and its unfair cause i only see my bf 1 time on a saturday and now i wont see him till next week cause hes doing revsion for hes A level exams.2 of my friends at the centure live with there bf,and are engaged to them as well.i dont wont to dumb my bf cause i love him so much.just jealous of the girls at my centure.

2007-01-15 05:54:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean he s a fantastic talker--the kinda ideal blend of a bad boy-passionate lover,a classy creation of nature ! i love such guys- how to make them a tinge sweeter? and how the hell do you make such guys fall flat for you?(im a gud looker too- but guessin dats nt enuf) -

2007-01-15 05:54:16 · 8 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

hi guys,

my gf needs help on how to say this in german. Her close friend (who is in germany) is getting played by her idiot bf with his ex and needs to say this to her so she can catch him. She doesnt want to tell her straight up for some reason ( i think she scared to hear hear reaction) and wants to tell her annoymously.

"do you think your boyfriend is faithful? he has been cheatin on you with me, his ex"

thanks

2007-01-15 05:54:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who is emotionally distant and has an issue with intimacy? I try so hard not to say things in a way that is attacking but no matter how I say things he takes it like I am attacking him.

2007-01-15 05:54:12 · 9 answers · asked by emilyanne 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this uy I really like and starting to love because he's all that I think of. Well, I really want to hug him sometimes, but i just want to make it seem like an excuse. Can anyone list a few ways to ask a guy can you give him a hug. Don't say "JUST ASK HIM", how should I ask himthat makes it seems like an excuse. i really appreciate it if you guys help!

2007-01-15 05:53:04 · 10 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

I am newly single as my ex (of 5 years) and I broke up a few months ago. He is moved on and I feel I am ready too. I was just wondering how men would feel about a woman in my situation. I am 21 and have a three year old daughter. I am graduating from college in May. Is the fact that I am so young with a child/ or just that I have a child at all going to keep SERIOUS men from me? I am not neccesarily looking for someone to settle with now and I know better than to bring a bunch of men into my daughter's life . I'm not looking to be critisized but honesty is appreciated!

2007-01-15 05:52:20 · 17 answers · asked by xoheidixo10 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend's mother offered to do the addressing of our invitations. She is going to be invited. Does she write out her own invitation? Or do I do that one...will she think she's not invited?

Also, she does not want to be paid. I am going to take her out to dinner, but I would also like to give her a small something. What could I do?

2007-01-15 05:52:14 · 10 answers · asked by Just tryin' to help 6 in Weddings

And you are fighting to make sure it comes true?

2007-01-15 05:52:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this boy i like. Last time we went ice skating and he held on to my shoulder.... He's so dreamy. 1 problem, he doesn't like me. He likes this other woman. My jaws were on the floor when i heard the news. How can i make him like me instead of her?

2007-01-15 05:51:58 · 15 answers · asked by joycehi777 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is for the ladies out there.

I am a college student, I have no money. I am single and attempting to find someone, but I keep feeling like not having money is hindering my efforts.

Do women only want a guy with money? Sure most people say personality and such is important too, but is money near the top of their list of requirments?

Please give me input.

2007-01-15 05:51:36 · 23 answers · asked by Jason 5 in Singles & Dating

I am an 18 years old girl in India and have a boyfriend for a year now. My parents are conservative so I did not tell them about him. However, I am 1 month pregnant now. My boyfriend who has been on a business trip promises to marry me as soon as he returns. However, I do not know how to tell my parents i'm getting married without their concent. Please advice me on what course of action I should take.

2007-01-15 05:51:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

hey!
my sister's frndz called me n want me to arrange the baby shower for them!! Its gonna be in her house, ive planned how to get her out n how to bring her home and everything ..
But im stuck in a few things coz ive never had a baby shower n never been to one!!
1) decorations? (very low budget!!) plz plz give me cheap ideas but nice ones!
2) food? its gonna be @ 8 in the evening, so should i jst give finger foods, crisps with a dip, drinks .. n thts it? or more?
3) Games ?? what do ppl do ? talk? play games? wht games? ideas plz ..
4) anyother things tht ive missed out?
thnx aloooot.. n plzzzzz help me, coz its the first baby in the family i want it perfect .. !!

2007-01-15 05:50:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-15 05:50:41 · 4 answers · asked by D J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy that I liked so much dated me for a week. He said that we had fun and everything but doesn't want to date anymore. Since I was mad at him, I didn't talk to him for weeks. All of a sudden, we talk like its no big deal but only online. We argue about things and then we have a polite conversation all in one night. But before that he brought up what he was thinking and said that he was thinking about the fun we had together. I don't understand because he doesn't want a relationship with me. Later on, the day we were talking, he says that he is thinking about me. What in the world should I be thinking. He said he liked me, just not in the way I used to like him, but he keeps bringing up the things that we did together. I told him that this was a love/hate friendship. Since he ignored me one day and didn't answer me, he told me he was watching TV. I said that he never watched TV at my house. All he said that there was funner things to do then. Am I missing something here?

2007-01-15 05:49:52 · 4 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

you know how all medicines have a scientific name and a generic..such as: tylenol=alafacept, Advil=albuterol........so i was thinkin what would be the name for Viagra?...i was thinkin something like "mycocksafloppin".......any other suggestions?

2007-01-15 05:49:42 · 3 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 05:49:18 · 14 answers · asked by ~tanskie~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Did I ruin my chance with her?
Here's the deal: Went out with an attractive girl that we had lots in common with. She did the following and ladies I want you to tell me the meaning of these actions:

She extended her arms out toward me with her palms up, not touching mine, she kept crossing her legs and leaning over. She kept playing with her boot. She told me she didnt' have socks on under her boots, she gave me sips of her drinks several times, she also invited me to see the house she was going to be until she realized it was getting late. We were out until a little after midnight during the work week.

I flirted with her, held her hand for a little bit, and told her that I could tell that she was into yoga and loved to cook. Both were true. She seemed amazed. She also seemed red and was smiling alot and at one point rested her chin on her palm while she laughed at things I said that weren't even meant to be funny. I asked her out again, and she said "I'd love to" with this face like "aww, isn't that cute.

I felt something there, but I still just kissed her on the cheek. I haven't heard back from her in three weeks. I know she's in the process of buying a new house, but she also never got back to me after I called her to remind her about meeting me again that following week.

This may sound trite, but did it sound like I expressed enough interest in her? Did my not kissing her on the lips cost me getting to know her more? Did it sound like I played my cards right?......

I didnt' want to move too forward.

2007-01-15 05:49:03 · 23 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive known this guy since preschool...ive secretly been in love with him for a long time we are now 15...what should i do?

2007-01-15 05:48:58 · 15 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Singles & Dating

about seeing him. what can i do about it.

2007-01-15 05:48:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-15 05:48:13 · 5 answers · asked by La'Grange 4 in Weddings