Theres this boy i like. Last time we went ice skating and he held on to my shoulder.... He's so dreamy. 1 problem, he doesn't like me. He likes this other woman. My jaws were on the floor when i heard the news. How can i make him like me instead of her?
2007-01-15 05:51:58 · 15 answers · asked by joycehi777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the other responses... you can't really make someone like you. You can however make him see what he would be missing without you in his life. It sounds like you are close ... like "good Friends'? Try being absent for a while. It is a game and it will be difficult BUT absence does make the heart grow fonder. Do not be one of those needy girls that calls all the time and begs him for answers. I have two sons and two daughters and trust me, guys like girls that are strong and independent and can take care of themselves. And when you are that way, you will feel better about yourself too! Be yourself...always! And if he can't see you as more than a friend than you will know that the time you spent trying to make him see you as more was not wasted...you took care of YOU and now yo will be ready (physically, mentally and emotionally) for the RIGHT guy to come into your life. Good luck and rock on!
2007-01-15 06:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't ever make someone like you. What you could do is to try and spend some time with this person, let him get to know you and vice versa. Who knows what could happen...if anything, worse case senario you two end up being good friends.
Good Luck Dear!!
The right person will come along!
2007-01-15 13:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Smoops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get closer to him and find out what types of things he's into ( Ex. Music, Sports, movies, hobbies etc. etc. ) then if his interests are the same as yours use that to your advantage, but if you don't really have anything in common and is only attracted to him because of his looks things most likely won't work out, and you should probably forget about him and move on, but before you do that see if you guys have things in common and use that to your advantage, but most important just be yourself, you can't make someone like you it just has to happen.
2007-01-15 14:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u can't exacly make someone like u. if he likes her thats just the way he swings. but start to become frineds with him. the more he trusts u the more he might want to date u. usualy the more a guy knows about u the more he will start to like u. just hang out with him. get him to trust u and get on his good side.
2007-01-15 13:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all give yourself a whole new wardrobe, a nice ans sexy one that he can droll about and make yourself seem as if you donut like him and act like you don't notice him anymore and talk to his friends a lot in a flirty way so that he comes wanting to talk to you all the time.
2007-01-15 13:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
luv you can't, find someone else who feels the same way...on the other hand be a great friend to him (friends stay in the picture longer than crushes)...you never know what will happen
2007-01-15 13:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like she said you cant make some one like you.....you just got to get to know him more than she does and hope that will win him over. but what ever you do dont try to over do it and dont make ur self look better in any way than she is.
2007-01-15 13:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by killerlegend2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate 2 say it but u cant make some1 like u.
i have the same problem only he likes my best friend
2007-01-15 13:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be urself, make sure he sees ur best side all the time, and maybe things will change. =)
2007-01-15 13:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by septdev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't right now because he wants to get with someone else so his focus is on the other girl find someone else
2007-01-15 13:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋