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about seeing him. what can i do about it.

2007-01-15 05:48:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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I think u should show him love and try to understand what had happened to him in Iraq its cant be described
Am sorry for the next words but bodies are in the streets, dogs are eating them I can't tell more for your own sake
By the way am Iraqi

2007-01-15 06:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by longbattery84 1 · 0 0

Being in Iraq for however long will no doubt have an effect on him. You're probably nervous because he's definately going to come home a changed man. I dealt with that when my best friend Erin came home from the Navy after months at sea. This was quite a few years ago but the idea is the same. You're probably also nervous because it's been a while since you've seen each other..and you may have to take some time to re-connect. You're getting to know each other again and that can be un-nerving in itself. Just take it slow and give it some time. He may need it.

2007-01-15 13:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by yzma 2 · 0 0

I can understand why you are nervous, my daughters in IRAQ and will be home in March and they have a new baby he has not seen yet. you have to ask yourself. 1 are you really happy to see him. 2. how were both you reacting when he left for IRAQ. Also if you were in love with him, I understand feelings change. Have you been faithful. if you have been then this guy deserves a chance to rekindle any relationship you both had. When he gets home take things slow talk, go on dates, do not just jump into bed. If he has been gone for a while its like meeting someone all over again. You have to take things slow. He also has been in a place where none of us want to go. At the same time. he should be grateful you stayed and waited for him. Remember those things and you should do fine. Good luck and welcome him home from some marines' mom

2007-01-15 13:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by mymontanagirl 1 · 0 0

I am sure he is just as nervous as you are. When couples have been away for such a long time it does make it kinda nerve racking just because its all different right now....and you ask yourself 20,000 questions and hope you look good and haven't gained weight , will he still like me????and so on and so forth...

I would try not to be nervous....when you see him throw your arms around him and hold on! I am sure it will all be fine. Alot of your nervousness is excitement too!

Have fun and thank him for me for serving our country!

2007-01-15 14:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Smoops 2 · 0 0

You have to keep in mind the GOOD, FUN memories on why and what brought you together for the first time!

Also keep in mind you have a HERO coming home!! Be proud of him!!

Also be prepared for him to seem more grown up than you remember, and maybe be a bit different cause he has experienced things you and I know nothing about.

Be there for him, with open arms and lots of love!!

2007-01-15 14:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0 0

Find something to occupy your time.
- clean house
- exercise
- run errands
- read
- get a book on tape or on CD from the library
- volunteer for a day or a week or whatever at the local animal shelter, hospital, hospice, soup kitchen, or something similar
- study or do homework
- make a "welcome home Humphrey!!!" poster (unless his name isn't Humphrey, of course)
- buy him a box of condoms
- bake him a cake

Use your imagination. You need to keep yourself busy in the time until he gets here.

2007-01-15 13:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0 0

why? take him at your arms, rough him w/ your legs, make him happy, and be normaly like u did be four he left.

2007-01-15 13:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by rude 3 · 0 0

Why aren't you excited? I don't understand...

2007-01-15 13:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0 0

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