Boyfriend is a seperated man who a couple weeks ago was "found out" by his wife that he was seeing me, and 'Chilled' things out with me...no phone calls or text and very little communication. Now he is starting to have more conversations with me and 'hinting' around about having sex. I feel that we need to rebuild the relationship and the amount of non-sexual intimacy before we jump into a sexual encounter. Otherwise I feel like that's all he's in it for??
2007-01-15 05:57:32 · 22 answers · asked by gwen s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is still married but just seperated then her finding out about you shouldn't had the effect on him like it did. I believe you are just a booty call to him, of course he will deny it but this is how I see it, drop him. Good luck.
2007-01-15 06:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is all that he is in for or he wouldn't have cared if his wife found out. Since he needed to "chill things out" after his wife figured out what was going on, it would tell me that he really wants to get back together with her eventually and you are nothing more than a temporary booty call. What relationship do you need to rebuild with him? He is NOT interested in a relationship with you. So the question for you is, are you willing to be his sexual servant whenever him and his wife aren't getting along?
2007-01-15 14:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh yes hun that is all that you are is a booty call he has a wife that he goes home to every night so if you are going to give in to any sexual encounters with him again then just remember that is all that it is and will be about is sex why would you want to degrade yourself like that knowing that he has a wife hey I guess you want to waste some more time in your life being the other woman
2007-01-15 14:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't have anything to do with him unless he gets divorced. Apparently he still has feelings for his wife if he put you on the back burner for a couple of weeks until things cooled down. There are plenty of people out there that are available. have some respect for yourself and toss him. Good luck!
2007-01-15 14:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by giamc 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um if he is married then you should not be seeing him. Even if he is so called "separated" then you need to wait until a divorce is finalized. Basically you are just a booty call or a "piece on the side" with him.
2007-01-15 14:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by NIcole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's seperated and not divorced you were never more than a booty call. He's not interested in a relationship - he's trying to get OUT of one!!
2007-01-15 14:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, but please don't see this guy again. It's only a botty call. Plus if he's doing that to his wife, you don't want to become her...that's what you will be if you continue and he does leave her (which I doubt he will leave her) but you deserve better. Just in vision what you want and you will have it. Do you really want a married guy and getting sloppy seconds? You deserve the best, and that just isn't it!
2007-01-15 14:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are going to be a booty call ho.e for some other womans husband. And people wonder why the world thinks western women are who.re.s.
2007-01-15 14:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That IS all he's in it for. He's still married, so there's a chance he'll go back to his wife...are you willing to risk yourself for that?
How about waiting to hear that he's divorced? If he is really interested in you...he'll wait himself so you don't get confused and would at least reassure you about his intentions than letting you guess yourself.
2007-01-15 14:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That IS all he is in it for. He has a wife for the relationship aspect of it.
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2007-01-15 14:00:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋