Ive known this guy since preschool...ive secretly been in love with him for a long time we are now 15...what should i do?
2007-01-15 05:48:58 · 15 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ill be 16 in a few days
2007-01-15 05:55:42 · update #1
He jokes a lot with me...like about sexual things and stuff...
2007-01-15 05:58:10 · update #2
By the way our families dont know each other
2007-01-15 06:10:44 · update #3
Nothing. You're not in love, it's just a teenage infatuation. You're only 15 so you're probably too young to date anyway. Focus on your studies, hobbies, family, friends and goals.
2007-01-15 05:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would defiently try and talk to him. Maybe at first...just try and get a feel for what his feelings might be towards you. Try and take note of his body language or the why he responds to anything you say. I would defiently let him know how you feel becasue if you dont then you might always wonder what would happen if you did. But keep in mind, sweetheart, you are only 15 and this is unlikely to be the last time you think you are in love. Good luck!
2007-01-15 13:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Diamond~ I <3 my Son 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok all the people before me wrong that say tell him and im a guy im 16 just turned if i new a girl and im thinking of one right now that i've known since every and we started going out it would be like we were married we knew everything about eachother now if your friends through school but have accasionly go over to eachothers house it might be different but if your family are friends then my above example would be true now if i had this girl come up tto me and say she liked me it would be wierd and shocking since i thought of this girl like my sister but if we slowly got together it would be easier see spend more time with him and act like a girlfriend would act but not so all over maybe if your group of friends are sitting down ona bench sit on his lap that sort of suttle when you see him and he doesn't see you (like from behind)run up and hug him from behind and when he starts doing stuff sorta like this to you then amp this up a little untill you go to a party together and your both wasted try to cuddle and stuff this the only way i can think of getting this guy oh plus your a chick and its hella of alot easier for a chick to get a guy then it is for a guy to get a chick just keep that in mind if this doesn't work out
2007-01-15 14:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by answerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this same exact situation. Except mine started in Kindergarten. We were great friends i loved him and all my friends said he did to. However we never did anything about it because we never wanted to ruin the great friendship we had. I'm so glad we never did. I still love him but as a GREAT friend. I'm now happily married and him and my husband get along great and i would never ever chance our friendship and i'm so happy we didnt. You need to think.....if we decide to become more than friends if we end up not working out will i be completely upset losing him as friend. Go with your heart..if you let him know and he acts weird about it play it off as you were just joking.
2007-01-15 14:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by roxygurl1307 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like him and would like to go out with him. Go after the things you want in life, otherwise the things you want will slip through your fingers.
2007-01-15 13:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by McB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and plenty of time to recover, go for it, let him know you are interested in him, more than just friends. Good luck.
2007-01-15 13:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him or wait more 50 years
2007-01-15 13:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by locerma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go where your heart leads you its realy your decision i cant tell you what you should or shouldn't do, but i know that you will make the right decision. Good Luck!
2007-01-15 13:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Why? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have special feelings for him
or just tell him,he means a lot to you.
2007-01-15 13:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by ranya j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh tell him you have a crush on him because he will never know until you let him know
2007-01-15 13:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋