Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

ex-wife. I already knew that she was in the process of getting a divorce with him. She lives by herself now since she does not see him anymore. But anyway we got drunk and we ended up sleeping with each other. Was it wrong to sleep with her because she was married to my cousin? BTW, my cousin and i are not that close anyway.

2007-01-15 05:36:31 · 23 answers · asked by PD 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there's this nice girl that likes my boyfriend jake her names alexa and she sent him a shout out at our school saying she loves him....but he doesn't love her he loves me and she says she doesn't like him and and today she admitted it to me and she said she does love him....she lied to me before b-cuz she wanted to be my friend and now she stole my pictures of him and she been postin his picture on her myspace.....so what should i do?=(

2007-01-15 05:36:26 · 13 answers · asked by tanya 1 in Singles & Dating

I lost my mum 6 years ago and ive started counselling on various occasions only to pack it in.Now ( six years on tomoz) im finally getting counselling and im really feeling the benefits.

2007-01-15 05:35:52 · 13 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when a girl wears her jacket and look at u and move her hard and plays whit her hair and u go talk to some peoples and u see she is looking at u when u look back she suddently turns away fast what all this mean?

2007-01-15 05:35:43 · 15 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

after 17 years and countless turmoils he says he doesnt love dont know if he ever did hes been cheating on me and now he wants a divoce and for me to move to another state with my kids taking only the 2 suitcases im allowed on the plane. im afraid hell get rid of my stuff and believe hes going to regret taking such extreme measures and will want me back my heart hurts and im mad but i dont feel like fighting to keep him how do i save face and find a new relationship where i dont know anybody and how do i make sure i get the compensation i deserve hes maxed out all our credit on his show car and says he cant help me financially right now do i accept that and ask for more later

2007-01-15 05:35:24 · 16 answers · asked by sniffles2008 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am an 18 yr old girl in college and my parents are pressuring me to take self defense classes?At 5 ft 6 and 110 pounds so i cant do much anyway?My aunt signed me up as a christmas gift should i cave and just go? I think they want me to because i am a commuter and have one night class.Are they being overly protective?

2007-01-15 05:34:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do I get a marriage licence in Eugene, OR?

2007-01-15 05:34:32 · 5 answers · asked by Simona S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my boyfriend/father of three of my children and I were seperated he father another child. Well he wants me to become friends with her. I personally hate her. I also think that there is still something going on between them. He has also told me that he isn't sure that he still wants this between us. Should I try to be her friend?

2007-01-15 05:34:25 · 30 answers · asked by jessica c 2 in Family

cant you just accept yourself? I truly believe plastic surgery is for insecure people. And I don't like fake breasts either!

2007-01-15 05:34:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and naybe i can go out with boys too i will just not tell my boyfriend that and he wants to have sex with me wat do i do?

2007-01-15 05:33:52 · 1 answers · asked by megan s 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible for a man to maintain fairly regular contact with a woman, have sex with her, tell her she's a good lover but that he only wants to be friends, nothing more. What does that mean? Does it mean that he doesn't really fancy her? In other words, can a man have sex with a women, and want to keep up that sexual relationship, but not actually fancy her? Why would he bother keeping in contact?

2007-01-15 05:33:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year we were friends(we still are), and she sat in front of me in class. She would always turn around and stare at me(not in a bad way). I would ask her why she stared at me and she would just shrug. What was that all about?

2007-01-15 05:33:15 · 8 answers · asked by bi-girl-2009 1 in Singles & Dating

What have all you singletons got planned for Valentines Night?? I for one will not let being single make it a miserable day/night! Any ideas how we can celebrate??

2007-01-15 05:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by cruisingkerry 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I stay together. I have alot of trust in him and I he trust me. We both work alot and when we are not working we are sleeping...well to get to my point...we both have myspace and there are pictures on both of our pages with each other together to let everyone know that we are in a relationship together...well i get on myspace to talk to friends from elementary school and from when i was in the army...nothing more...a couple of weeks ago i accessed his myspace and i noticed a message that he sent to a girl talking about her azz...but the girl pretty much blew him off and that is all the conversation was about...well yesterday i was looking at the history and i noticed where he visited more than 20 females pages and 2 from the local area...should i be worried...

2007-01-15 05:32:27 · 5 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i just started talking to this girl about 2 weeks ago, been going well, met her thru my brother (dates her younger sister) anyways, shes perrrfect for me, shes not a major partier like me, shes down to earth, smart, gorgeous, and most of all is really really into me, theres only one thing, and i was warned by her sister and my brother,shes completely different on the phone and with her communication skills, for example, when im with her, shes always all over me, wants to hug, kisses me more than i kiss her, holds hands, flirts, etc its great...shes a shy girl, but, on the phone, she never really pays attention, i have to repeat myself, and when not on the phone ill be cute and text message her, but she wont text back or anything, shes wierd when she calls, it will start off good like "hey gorgeous" but after that shes really quiet, and is the "i dont care, if you want to" type of girl, and i always have to make the plans to come over or vice versa and i want more attention, help?

2007-01-15 05:32:12 · 7 answers · asked by clownwitafrown2 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm fourteen and certainly not ready yet. However, I'd like to know when other people had their first kisses... What it amazing or disappointing? Spur of the moment or pre-planned?

2007-01-15 05:31:59 · 39 answers · asked by K 2 in Singles & Dating

Me an my man have been 2geather for awhile, when he;s @ home were fine the perfect couple!!! but while he's away @ work we fight constintly. an we cant find anything to talk about...NEED ADVICE!!!!!!

2007-01-15 05:31:24 · 9 answers · asked by rebel girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 05:31:23 · 19 answers · asked by Chloe 4 in Singles & Dating

love , marriage

2007-01-15 05:31:02 · 9 answers · asked by kiran 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi. I was just wondering what guys really think about having long term relationships with women who have children from previous partners. Is it irrelevant? Or would you never consider settling with a woman with children? Your thoughts would be appreciated.

2007-01-15 05:31:01 · 8 answers · asked by doodlenatty 4 in Singles & Dating

Do counselors work??
I have been with my boyfriend for coming on a year. A few weeks ago I decided that we fight way to much and that he should move out...so he did. He wants me to go see a counselor with him. What are some experinces??? Good or bad

2007-01-15 05:30:44 · 9 answers · asked by barb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

don't say a money box... he has about 10 already.

2007-01-15 05:30:42 · 19 answers · asked by amelia4698 1 in Family

Ok I told my crush that I liked him about 1 month ago! Then he told all his friends and they tease him and they went up to me and said so you really told him you like him. I said yea I really fooled him didn't I! I still really do like him I don't know why I said that! Now when I see him and try to talk to him he always says I am tired ! How do I get him to talk to me and act like everything normal I want to tell him you still have not told me wheather or not you like me

Maybe I should says you know what you need u need to get laid that will catch his attention ! I am not going to have sex with you though!

2007-01-15 05:29:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I've made a terrible mistake. I'm going through a divorce and when an old friend (who made no secret of his attraction for me) called out of the blue and suggested a meet, I didn't say no.
Well, we've been "meeting" now fairly regularly, I thought the idea was to keep it casual. Well, he slipped, and whispered that he loved me. Yes I knew of the attraction thing, but I didn't think love was a part of the equation. He's such the happy player type. But now he's got the whole can't consentrate, can't sleep thing going on...this concerns me because this was how I was with my husband. I'm not capable of loving my friend this way, not now, maybe not ever. I don't want to hurt my friend, and I don't want to lose him. What do I do? No longer meet? What?

2007-01-15 05:29:44 · 11 answers · asked by amyaliceco 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal: Went out with an attractive girl that we had lots in common with. She did the following and ladies I want you to tell me the meaning of these actions:

She extended her arms out toward me with her palms up, not touching mine, she kept crossing her legs and leaning over. She kept playing with her boot. She told me she didnt' have socks on under her boots, she gave me sips of her drinks several times, she also invited me to see the house she was going to be until she realized it was getting late. We were out until a little after midnight during the work week.

I flirted with her, held her hand for a little bit, and told her that I could tell that she was into yoga and loved to cook. Both were true. She seemed amazed. She also seemed red and was smiling alot and at one point rested her chin on her palm while she laughed at things I said that weren't even meant to be funny. I asked her out again, and she said "I'd love to" with this face like "aww, isn't that cute.

I felt something there, but I still just kissed her on the cheek. I haven't heard back from her in three weeks. I know she's in the process of buying a new house, but she also never got back to me after I called her to remind her about meeting me again that following week.

This may sound trite, but did it sound like I expressed enough interest in her? Did my not kissing her on the lips cost me getting to know her more? Did it sound like I played my cards right?......

I didnt' want to move too forward.

2007-01-15 05:29:29 · 7 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

On new years eve my partner was very drunk, when he is like this he never remebers anything he has said. How ever we are engaged and living together (for 4 years) and he told me in his drunken stupor that he had been unfaitfull 4 times but it only counts as once as it was with the same person. I took a deep breath and ignored it then as I did not want it to spoil new year. He has never mentioned it since. What do I do????????????? Do I confront him and lose my home or ignor it like he has not said anything?

2007-01-15 05:29:19 · 30 answers · asked by kay s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

from a chicken costume to a ballgown...superman to stark naked...what would you wear???...just for fun...;0)

2007-01-15 05:29:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 13 and im to shy and please help me to overcome shyness.
my friends and other people have always told me that im to shy and need to talk more and say how many girls i can get but im just to quiet. Please dont say dont worry about it because i really want to overcome shyness. I mean my 11 yr old brother has had 3 gf's and me not one. And i really am just sick of it. My dad is always saying how worried he is cuase im to quiet and he doesnt want me commiting suicide becasue i keep things bottled up, but i wouldnt kill myself or anything like that.


PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME !?!?!?!?!?!?

2007-01-15 05:28:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has periods and wears a bra like any girl her age, but is a bit childish. The good thing is she's a sweetheart, has never done anything bad, just small mistakes, treats me, my husband nad her lil bro with love, gets good grades, plays sports. But she's ingenuous, naive, I'm afraid she may be hurt by bad people. She acts like a sweet girl, likes to help people, laughs a lot, is innocent. Somedays ago we were in a shopping center and she get away from to look at some colthes. Then, she suddenly ran to me, gave me a big hug and said My mom! As a mom, of course I love such things, and I hugged her too.
But I'm not sure if this is a normal behavior for a 13 yo girl. She still see boys just as friends and likes to go out with me and her dad. Well, at least she's a very happy girl.
Should I be worried?

2007-01-15 05:28:14 · 24 answers · asked by Gabi 1 in Family

2007-01-15 05:27:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating