Hi. I was just wondering what guys really think about having long term relationships with women who have children from previous partners. Is it irrelevant? Or would you never consider settling with a woman with children? Your thoughts would be appreciated.
2007-01-15 05:31:01 · 8 answers · asked by doodlenatty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if my fiance had 1 or 25 children it wouldnt put me off because its all about love
2007-01-15 06:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by j star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that children can enhance a relationship even if they are from a previous relationship.
Iam not a guy who wants a ready-made relationship with two children to someone else. But it can be alittle daunting for a female to mention that in a conversation i.e Doe's the female mention it on the first dat, 2nd date ect.
I think a man should be measured by his reaction to the fact that the female has children with someone else.
Its just an opinion.
Thanks
Martyn
2007-01-15 05:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by NEW YEAR - NEW ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is irrelevant. If you like the person and accept the fact they come as a package then where is the problem. I am currently in a relationship with a girl whohs a child from a past relationship and you may see from one of my questions on here i want to help her as much as I can with the baby and stuff. I see it as part of being with the girl. I hope this helps.
2007-01-15 06:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Westley K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are simple, if a guy finds you attractive and if you do not irritate him, you could have 100 kids and he will still be at you door. A man , who doesn't want you because you have kids, does not deserve you in the first place.
2007-01-15 05:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by bugsy12231977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife has a child from previous relationship didnt bother me or him as i have treated him fairly although he was 12 at the time so could probably understand the relationship between his mother and myself
2007-01-15 05:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Snot Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, the guy has to consider the woman and the child as a whole package. he has to accept not only the woman but also her child.
2007-01-15 05:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as everybody gets along well it really doesnt matter so long as everybody is happy
2007-01-15 05:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by TK M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DOES NOT MATTER
but frankly I CAN DATE but not to settle.
2007-01-15 05:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋