Here's the deal: Went out with an attractive girl that we had lots in common with. She did the following and ladies I want you to tell me the meaning of these actions:
She extended her arms out toward me with her palms up, not touching mine, she kept crossing her legs and leaning over. She kept playing with her boot. She told me she didnt' have socks on under her boots, she gave me sips of her drinks several times, she also invited me to see the house she was going to be until she realized it was getting late. We were out until a little after midnight during the work week.
I flirted with her, held her hand for a little bit, and told her that I could tell that she was into yoga and loved to cook. Both were true. She seemed amazed. She also seemed red and was smiling alot and at one point rested her chin on her palm while she laughed at things I said that weren't even meant to be funny. I asked her out again, and she said "I'd love to" with this face like "aww, isn't that cute.
I felt something there, but I still just kissed her on the cheek. I haven't heard back from her in three weeks. I know she's in the process of buying a new house, but she also never got back to me after I called her to remind her about meeting me again that following week.
This may sound trite, but did it sound like I expressed enough interest in her? Did my not kissing her on the lips cost me getting to know her more? Did it sound like I played my cards right?......
I didnt' want to move too forward.
2007-01-15 05:29:29 · 7 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may have very well been a nice girl. But trust me, she couldn't wait to get away from you for one reason or the other. She was sending mixed signals because she's 'nice,' but she didn't like you enough to make anything of it.
2007-01-15 05:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by miss understood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've never been slapped, you are too conservative. You could have been more forward in this case. And you could have cut the evening short and taken her home earlier. The boot and no sock thing was your opening to say, "Let's go back to your place and you can show me." And if they ever say they have tattoos, they are looking for the same response, even if they just laugh. So you kind of blew it. She may be kind and let you play again, and she may not. Call and be more confident, and try to spend time in her new digs. And when she smiles and squirms, make a move. It sounds like you are a virgin, and you CAN be too nice for your own good. Milk is cheap, bro. Best of luck.
2007-01-15 13:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you didnt ruin your chances by not kissing her on the lips. Probably she is either really busy, or is not interested. I think you did the right thing by kissing her on the cheek, it is very easy to be embarrased if you go for the full thing and she rejects you. But the cheek is safe because it still shows you want to kiss her, but that you are going to put the ball in her court. So I would say you did everything right, probably if she hasnt called you she wont. I would continue to go on dates, and keep looking
2007-01-15 13:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by raegurl99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is into you she will call you but don't wait around go out with more women, and have fun life is to short to play head games, and thats probly what she is doing by not calling hope this helps....
2007-01-15 13:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by sexyone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy you are supposed to call her. usually 3 days is a good amount of time to wait after the first date. girls normally won't call you, that is your job. and yes you prolly should have kissed her on the lips. girls have a hormone that is released when they kiss a guy, it causes them to become attached.
2007-01-15 13:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by createdtodestry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not AT ALL wrong dear, whatever you did is enough..if you would have kissed her on lips, it would rather have seemed like you are rushing with your relationship.
2007-01-15 13:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have done that.
2007-01-15 13:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋